Bi-Curious, Or Just Gay?

[Nomenclature]

I personally identify as gay; I've only had sex with men at this point, and i've enjoyed it. I'm capable of enjoying kissing, cuddling etc with a guy, and could see myself in a monogamous relationship with one. However, I would consider fucking a pussy if I were single and given the opportunity; I know it feels good, and you can fuck one a few times in the same night and there isn't nearly as much prep work/patience required as there is with anal sex. However, I have no desire to be in a relationship with a woman and doubt i'd feel a connection with her the way I do with guys. Basically, i'd only be fucking her for selfish pleasure.


Does that make me bi, or am I still just plain 'ol gay? Are there any gay men out there who've had sex with women before they came out and would maybe understand what i''m talking about?

 

[Seasoned]

As someone who was married to a woman, I think I know what you are talking about. I identify as gay. I have arguements all the time when I say it's not the sex act that defines whether someone is gay, straight or bi. It's the inner workings of the mind.

 

[Lefty]

As an exspurt, not to be confused with the experts running around all over,I have found that the label is not relevent. It is whats actually inside the package the counts.

WhenI was a kid, I fucked anything legal up to about the age of 60. Didn't have anything against over 60's, thats just what I scored.

One day I grew up when I realized there was so much more to making love than fucking. Making love is what you do with a real person, fucking is a hole (either side) or a fist.

The key isn't Straight or Gay or Bi, the key is being real and being real with a person. time is over for now.


See, I can go straight and not be a smart ass...oh god but it hurts though

 

[Nomenclature]

Well i've had a few straight friends secretly admit to me that they actually think pussies are really gross, refuse to go down on a girl etc. . .but that they know they're straight because they feel a connection/attraction to women that they just don't get with men. I'll never forget what a straight buddy from the Marines told me before he left for Afghanistan: "God made a woman's face and tits nice to look at so a man can look straight ahead when he's fucking her." :facepalm:

But, yeah. . .I guess i'm the opposite of that: I would theoretically be able to have emotionless sex with a woman, but I want more than that with a guy. At least now I know what straight guys feel like when they admit they'd experiment with a guy, I guess.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I kind of agree. I have a boyfriend and feel a great connection with him. I just never feel that I can have an intimate connection with a girl. Maybe it's the fact that I always leave it as a friendship?

 

[Vicward]

It's the reverse for me. I feel the emotional connection towards women, but not men. However, I'm attracted to both. I've found though that there are many types of women that I'm attracted to; different body types, ethnicities, etc. But with men, it's only a very specific type. No idea where that puts me.

 

[Nomenclature]

It's the reverse for me. I feel the emotional connection towards women, but not men. However, I'm attracted to both. I've found though that there are many types of women that I'm attracted to; different body types, ethnicities, etc. But with men, it's only a very specific type. No idea where that puts me.

I know a guy who recently came out as bisexual, because he's only romantically attracted to women, but WOULD have sex with a very, very specific kind of guy: Feminine twinks with cut cocks and no muscle mass. They have to be feminine and someone he can dominate (in a non BDSM way). He's not attracted to more masculine men whatsoever.



Sorry for post-whoring, but i've been weird lately and i'm just trying to make sense of things, I guess. I'll shut up now.

 

[acrom1]

I identify a gay and I'm in a monogamous relationship going on ten years, but when I jerk off I watch almost exclusively to watch straight porn, to my partner's head scratching. Though I've done just about everything I've wanted to do on the sexual plane, I was never able to find a male and female to do a three-way with, get a couple and if one was interested the other wasn't or chickened out(usually the girl). Still think it would be fun to cross swords with a guy during a three-way. Shows how gay I am.

 

[ohhi12]

i'm both physically and emotionally attracted to girls, and very severely sexually attracted to guys. but ya know, ya never know what would happen if i'd spend enough time with a guy. a spark could ignite.
but i'm ULTRA picky when it comes to both

 

[Vicward]

I know a guy who recently came out as bisexual, because he's only romantically attracted to women, but WOULD have sex with a very, very specific kind of guy: Feminine twinks with cut cocks and no muscle mass. They have to be feminine and someone he can dominate (in a non BDSM way). He's not attracted to more masculine men whatsoever.



Sorry for post-whoring, but i've been weird lately and i'm just trying to make sense of things, I guess. I'll shut up now.

No need to shut up... it's what discussion boards are for, right?

Strange thing is, muscle men are the only type of men I am attracted too, but I prefer them clean shaven pretty much all over. So I guess I like guys that look like men but have female hygiene habits, lol.