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Bi Guys...Are you out?

Are you Out?

  • Out to my wife.

    Votes: 13 10.1%

  • Out to my GF.

    Votes: 9 7.0%

  • Out to my BF.

    Votes: 5 3.9%

  • Not out at all.

    Votes: 93 72.1%

  • Out to everyone other than my partner.

    Votes: 9 7.0%
  • Total voters
    129
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Just curious if you're out or not. I'm married and have three kids, and am very open, honest, and out to my wife.
 
No one knows, but the people that read my posts and of course the guys I've been with. I only ever go with a guy or girl at any one time so I don't feel a need to tell a girl that I also like cock. I love the sight, feel, and taste of cock as well as pussy and tits. I can't imagine being without any of this.
 
Only the handful of guys I have messed around with know. I feel like I am still figuring it out so I don't feel comfortable coming out. And I am single and don't really feel the need to tell everyone about my sex life. And if I was in a relationship I would tell the other at some point about what I like sexually.
 
Your poll does not have a place for out to everyone. I don't hide it, but I do make people ask me unless I am interested in them.
 
Not out at all, in fact, I'm still figuring it all out.

It's so frustrating trying to figure it all out when you are not ready to be that vulnerable.
 
Nobody knows or needs to know right now. I'm very private to begin with. Even if I was with a girl right now I wouldn't tell anybody.

I just really private. I would only say anything if it was serious.
 
nightmareman said:
Nobody knows or needs to know right now. I'm very private to begin with. Even if I was with a girl right now I wouldn't tell anybody.

I'm just really private. I would only say anything if it was serious.
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great post! i too am a very private person and i feel its not my familys business what i like sexually.:-)
 
I am not our at all. Would love to chat with some of you. Hit me up on YM please.
Thank, Tobey
 
I'm out to one and all ... it doesn't bother me if people don't accept me. I live my life like an open book, I have nothing to hide ... I'm a happy-go-lucky person :goodevil:
 
Apart from whomever I was with at the time, only two friends know.

One I've known for years and told last year before we started gymming together - just so he wouldn't get freaked out that he'd been naked around me if I only told him much later - and one is a guy I've only recently met and told him on the first day, figuring I'd rather he knew it from the start.

Still - gay is easier, I think. Gay is everywhere - on tv, in movies, famous people, the lot. Bi is still a bit of a closed book to the man in the street and I don't think people realise fully what it means to us. I'm sure if you asked the average straight guy what bi meant the answer would be a girl who would have sex with him and another girl simultaneously for his entertainment, with no acknowledgement that things might run deeper for some of us than just the physical.

-d-
 
blackbeltninja said:
...with no acknowledgement that things might run deeper for some of us than just the physical. -d-
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O Dude, I think you are not alone there.

Even str8 men have deep feelings for their mates.

And most of the time they just can't/won't acknowledge that those feelings might go further if they weren't brought up in this culture with mores leftover from the Victorian era.

The feelings are there, just buried or denied.
 
^ yepp :'-(


but to be positive, times are definitely getting better. With gay marriage being excepted in more and more states the acceptance for homosexuality and equality is growing.
 
so question to those who are not out. What lengths do you go to deny your sexuality if ever questioned, or do you never deny it and just not answer, what have you said in the past?
 
Caaake said:
^ yepp :'-(

but to be positive, times are definitely getting better. With gay marriage being excepted in more and more states the acceptance for homosexuality and equality is growing
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You're right! - it is getting better over time...

10 years ago feelings between "straight" males wasn't even talked about; now we have terms like bromance in the common vernacular...
 
The question for me is: "What would be the need?"

The morality snoops in my town would have had a field day had they known of my LTR with the new guy in town during our last two years of high school. We were discovering that there was that lesser side of our sexuality.

My college roommate and I made sure the door was locked and for almost two years we enjoyed loving sex that was fantastic.

My housemate for two years in Seattle and I never gave even the near neighbors any indication that our loving relationship included sex.

As I see it, what happens sexually between two consenting adults is personal and private and I believe wise persons keep it that way.

We all know that society generally does not yet offer its approval of loving sexual relationships between men. But, things are changing. Yet, I hope we will never reach the time when persons will feel compelled to declare their sexual orientation. My two LTRs with women did include sex but the world outside those relationships had no announcement from us about what we were doing sexually. And, wise me, I never discuss with my preent partner what happened sexually between me and my friends. Actually, with a host of them there never was anything sexual.

In sum, I am willing to let the outside world draw whatever conclusions they wish. When eventually I was married, the vows were public and I have been happy to be a faithful partner to my wife and devoted father to my children. Life is choices, but that does not erase the fact that there is a part of me which still finds some men and some women sexually attractive.

What earthly good would it be for me to announce that fact to the public at large, or to my friends, or to my children, or to my wider family?
 
MoltenRock2 said:
interesting poll. Basically 17% are "out" and those that really are bisexual. And 83% are in the closet, meaning gay but too chicken to live their lives. No surprise really, as that seems about right as far as the gay vs. truly bisexual guys on this site.

So many closet cases scream, "but I'm bi". Um, yeah, right, whatever. No homo, you're gay, like the rest of us.
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Someone has an agenda to push...
 
No because if you come out to your girlfriend they will just think you're gay.

I'm only out to my two gay friends.

Caaake said:
so question to those who are not out. What lengths do you go to deny your sexuality if ever questioned, or do you never deny it and just not answer, what have you said in the past?
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Hmm... never been questioned. I don't know what I'd do that situation. I guess it depends on who and what they had on me.
 
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