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Bi-Guys: Do you cum harder/stay harder with a woman or guy?

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I have had both over time I now notice NO difference overall in intensity. although I'd say my swing/desire has changed more from women to men (40-60%)
But way back when I experienced my first man, I'd go soft almost immediately, that did start to change,with further "experimenting" I would ejaculate with no orgasm. Soon after that I could stay rock hard with him but could't "let go".
With women it was/is never an issue

(Things have obviously REALLY changed in the MM department or I wouldn't be asking this.)

I'm still sexually attracted to women as well.

What about the rest of you bi's?
 
I think the diffrence is rather profound, personally.

I prefer anal though. On both guys and girls.

Actually, sometimes I think I like guys just because it's rare for the kind of girls I like to be into anal at all.

*shrug*
 
Guys. They are far more sexual. Huge sex-appeal.
 
I have had both and they are both good but ass is better probably because I perceive it as so naughty
 
I've never had an orgasm while touching a guy.

But for years, I'd usually start masturbating while fantasizing about guys but then switch to thinking about a woman when it was time to come. I found that if I stuck with guys throughout the jackoff session, that would be less intense than if I finished off while thinking about a woman. But if I started jacking off while thinking about a woman, it would take me a lot longer to get aroused.

Anybody else like that?

In the last year, though, I've been getting gayer and thinking about guys a lot more. Still, though, I have great orgasms thinking about women.

Sigh.
 
wow - this is more than interesting - I'm gonna have to spend more time here.
I'm a lot more gay- pretty sure of that - -although never acted on it past my teens. I could look at playboy all day long and never get hard --
but catch a glimple of a guy in shorts with hairy legs - and BOING !!!
yet - when i had sex with the "wife" it was no problem -- getting up - doing it- etc -- liking it - but it's a MAN i want.
 
Legend and Jakes, you have made my night. Thanks.

Growing up, I really thought I was a freak, having these bi feelings / tendencies, getting aroused by guys but needing to cum to the thoughts of women. Thank God for the internet and JUB, which have helped me realize I'm no freak! :D Sexuality is fascinating, actually ...
 
I cum harder with a man. Especially doing 69. Oral gets me with both sexes, just a little better with men.
 
I cum harder during male/male sex. I think it might have something to do with no "anxiety" but that may just be in my head.
 
I've found that men make me cum harder and I stay harder longer than when I look at women. It sucks when I see some hot men at work.. especially since I wear fairly tight dress pants every night. :p
 
During my first experience with a guy, I wasn't sure how hard I would get - being nervous had a lot to do with it. Once we took our clothes off and started touching - I got hard instantly. The nervousness went away, he made me feel relaxed and the newness just pushed me over the edge.

While I was getting my feet wet with guys, I was still having great sex with women, somehow being with a guy seemed to heighten sex with both.

At first, I was reluctant to kiss with a guy but as I let my guard down and got into kissing, I really experienced harder and longer erections and orgasms. More so than with women.

So at this time, I have to say I get a bigger turn-on when I'm with a guy than a woman. And this without having anal yet. Something I want to try and hopeful will be a great experience.
 
I've never had an orgasm while touching a guy.

But for years, I'd usually start masturbating while fantasizing about guys but then switch to thinking about a woman when it was time to come. I found that if I stuck with guys throughout the jackoff session, that would be less intense than if I finished off while thinking about a woman. But if I started jacking off while thinking about a woman, it would take me a lot longer to get aroused.

Anybody else like that?

In the last year, though, I've been getting gayer and thinking about guys a lot more. Still, though, I have great orgasms thinking about women.

Sigh.
100% accurate on my part. Crazy, I thought i was alone. If i think only about guys while jacking off, the orgasm isnt as intense as it is when i switch to a when I'm about to come. And if I jack off just to woman, it takes a little longer to get arroused.
 
When I masturbate over guys I have far better orgasm's than when I masturbate over women.
 
it depends on who i'm fucking but to answer your question it's been more often with a girl because i have complete sex with girls. i kiss and touch every part of them where as with a guy i only top and get head from them. i don't kiss and the only time i touch them really is pushing their head down on to my cock while face fucking them.
 
this is a hard one for me. When I top dudes I come harder only because I'm running things. But when I was with girl I really didnt come the hard. At the end of the day its guys for me

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I come harder and feel more pleasure when I've got a cock in me than when I'm with a woman. I also stay harder longer when I'm with a guy. That's because sex with men is better. The best part of being bi is having sex with guys and feeling their rock hard cocks in me.
 
I've never had an orgasm while touching a guy.

But for years, I'd usually start masturbating while fantasizing about guys but then switch to thinking about a woman when it was time to come. I found that if I stuck with guys throughout the jackoff session, that would be less intense than if I finished off while thinking about a woman. But if I started jacking off while thinking about a woman, it would take me a lot longer to get aroused.

Sigh.

im just the same way but maybe cuase i can never find another guy for a partner
 
To me is not a matter of my sex partner being M or F but of the individual ,Character, personality that she or he brings to bed.
 
Wow, me too all the way. Maybe it was ..embarassment (?) letting go with a man (?) naive (?) shy (?) my first time..
He wanted me to fuck him first (You want it WHERE????) and probably finish in him ,but I went totally soft before he even finished putting the lube on. He had to suck me hard again, and when I came my cock was so numb I barely even knew it.
Many years later, exact opposite when we hooked up again. I wasn't as hard (welcome to older age) yet still almost came within minutes of him blowing me. He wanted it up the ass, and THIS time I stayed hard and was able to let go remarkably easy.
More than likely, as you, I have increased needs for mm sex. Also knowing and admitting to myself what I need sexually overrode any embarassment or shyness. Should have come out to myself years ago that I like both genders and enjoy both sexually, but similar to what another poster said, I get into women and do more with them physically before sex, whereas with men, it's quicker and pretty much just busting (mutual) loads.


I have had both over time I now notice NO difference overall in intensity. although I'd say my swing/desire has changed more from women to men (40-60%)
But way back when I experienced my first man, I'd go soft almost immediately, that did start to change,with further "experimenting" I would ejaculate with no orgasm. Soon after that I could stay rock hard with him but could't "let go".
With women it was/is never an issue

(Things have obviously REALLY changed in the MM department or I wouldn't be asking this.)

I'm still sexually attracted to women as well.

What about the rest of you bi's?
 
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