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bi or gay

So is that something to be proud of?
You guys like to look at the guy first then the girl.... or vice versa....
Then you date a guy and he falls for you, then after a time you tell him 'oh man, sorry.... I'm not gay after all... I've met a girl I want to date'.
If you just want one night stands with girls or guys I guess it doesn't matter too much.
But if you date you really do need to be upfront about your changing attractions.
A quick fuck, a one night stand.... that doesn't matter too much imo.
But if a bi guy starts to date a gay guy and the gay guy starts to fall for you then it does matter. Don't mess with the feelings of others.
I used to think bi folk had he best of both worlds. But I dont' think that any more.
I feel sorry for bi guys.... they have it pretty tough in a lot of ways.
 
tonyboy said:
So is that something to be proud of? You guys like to look at the guy first then the girl.... or vice versa.... Then you date a guy and he falls for you, then after a time you tell him 'oh man, sorry... I'm not gay after all... I've met a girl I want to date'.

If you date you really do need to be upfront about your changing attractions. If a bi guy starts to date a gay guy and the gay guy starts to fall for you then it does matter. Don't mess with the feelings of others.
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What is wrong with you man??!! You know absolutely nothing about Swimvamp and yet you seem to think you know it all!!

"Is that something to be proud of?" What the heck are you talking about?? You think Swimvamp date guys and will dump him for the next best girl and this will make him feel proud?? He is bisexual after all, so he must be playing with gay guys?? That's a bunch of crap. And why is it that you only mention gay guys? Dating bisxual guys doesn't matter?

Your post is full of wrong stereotypes about bisexuals and you apply them to someone you don't know squad about. So damn foolish!! Who says he has changing attractions?? Not every bisexual has changing attractions.
 
RRRalph said:
Tony... Tony... Tony... ](*,)](*,)

What is wrong with you man??!! You know absolutely nothing about Swimvamp and yet you seem to think you know it all!!

"Is that something to be proud of?" What the heck are you talking about?? You think Swimvamp date guys and will dump him for the next best girl and this will make him feel proud?? He is bisexual after all, so he must be playing with gay guys?? That's a bunch of crap. And why is it that you only mention gay guys? Dating bisxual guys doesn't matter?

Your post is full of wrong stereotypes about bisexuals and you apply them to someone you don't know squad about. So damn foolish!! Who says he has changing attractions?? Not every bisexual has changing attractions.
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Of course I know nothing about swimvamp. And I don't claim to 'no it all' about anyone.
I've talked to lot's of guys on jub man.... and I've learned that there are many gay guys that get hurt by guys that decide they'd rather go to a girl. Could be it happens both ways, but since this is primarily a gay site I may only get the gay guys side of the story.

As I said ^ it doesn't much matter what a guy does if he just wants to go out for some fun casual sex. What is tough is that when a gay guy falls in love with his bi partner and the bi guy decides he wants to date girls.
 
Being bi simply means you are sexually attracted to both sexes, there is no rule about being attracted the same amount. consider myself bi even though I am attracted a lot more to men than women.
 
tonyboy said:
As I said ^ it doesn't much matter what a guy does if he just wants to go out for some fun casual sex. What is tough is that when a gay guy falls in love with his bi partner and the bi guy decides he wants to date girls.
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that is tough, just like when a gay guy falls for a gay guy and the guy decides to go for another guy, or a guy falls for a girl and then the girl decides she wants to date another guy.

i'm guessing it goes across the board. it's not just a "bi thing" it's a relationship thing. people move on, things dont work out. dont judge a group because you have heard 1/3 or the story from a person.
 
This happens to me all the time! It's nothing to freak out over. I know, because I used to do it all the time when I was still playing the Label Game. I was so busy obsessing over it that eventually I realized all I could do was be myself, do my thing and now I know that I just am what I am, so who cares if the rest of the world is scrutinizing me?

I like guys...and I like girls. What's the difference which one I notice first? There isn't one, really.

Just go with what feels right! If you know yourself and what you feel, then that's what matters the most.
 
i don't really think it makes u much of anything, now if you said

"I walked in a stared directly at his cock bulging in his jeans"

or sumthing like that, then yeah, i'd say bi or gay
 
Must admit I am more attracted to women then men .. ,about 60 -40 if you want to know... who would i look at in a party??
Every one!!.. life's to short !!!
 
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