Bi-Sexual Guys......Double Dipping??

[fabulouslyghetto]

1. It's "unfair" to who exactly?

2. Your preference for women is irrelevant since we're talking about OTHER people's preferences, unless you're implying that they should strictly date men since you choose to.

Leave bisexuals alone, they're not hurting anybody, what they do in the bedroom is their priority.

 

[giorgiobaby]

Let the bi's dip into whoever they want. Variety can be the spice of life.

 

[Volleyboy21]

Personally, I'm bi. I find both sexes attractive, and have found myself romantically involved with both. What the girl was probably worried about was the fact that she feels that the man could be 'double dipping' with a guy while the man was w/ her. If that makes sense.

In my opinion? Maybe? Maybe I'm way off. :X

 

[MystikWizard]

I can look at women and say if they are cute or very attractive ... but I just don't have the sexual attraction towards them.

 

[cklover]

I have a sexual attraction towards men, women, and transexual women. Interestingly though when I'm with a woman or a transexual woman I like to be the dominant partner (top only). When I'm with a man I like to be the submissive partner (bottom only). I also only have romantic feelings for women and transwomen. With men it's just sex, there is no romantic feeling at all. I'll bet a psychiatrist could have a field day with me. I don't see myself as double (or triple) dipping. I see myself as enjoying my sexuality to the fullest.

 

[giorgiobaby]

I have a sexual attraction towards men, women, and transexual women. Interestingly though when I'm with a woman or a transexual woman I like to be the dominant partner (top only). When I'm with a man I like to be the submissive partner (bottom only). I also only have romantic feelings for women and transwomen. With men it's just sex, there is no romantic feeling at all. I'll bet a psychiatrist could have a field day with me. I don't see myself as double (or triple) dipping. I see myself as enjoying my sexuality to the fullest.

I think you sound like you know how to have a good time, just go with it

 

[conrad]

Perhaps "double dipping" is something some who call themselves Bi-sexual guys seek for. I honor sexual relations between men as well as between men and women. But I am also one who believes faithfulness in relationships is the best way--one committed partnership at a time.

For that reason I prefer to think of myself as ambisexual rather than bisexual. By that I mean that I know I can be sustain a loving relationship with a man, but I know I can also sustain a loving relationship with a woman--I have been married for many years. IMHO the fact that so many men are homophobic is due, I believe, to the fact that they have never given themselves permission to believe that a relationship with a man is an option for them. Of course, in the case of those who claim to be 100% gay giving themselves permission to believe that a relationship with a woman would be possible for them offers the same kind of barrier to understanding their own true sexuality.

Openness to the surprises which life offers could, I believe, make the journey into the fullness of one's sexuality a whole lot happier.

 

[MisterMajestic]

I can't juggle a Woman & a Man at the same time....I can only deal with one person @ a time.I've got too much on my plate to even try..Going back and forth in relationships with both Sex does not turn me on and I've never thought about trying to juggle that kind of Drama...But I have messed around with other Bi-Guys in relationships and they juggle everything...

They juggle their Wives or girlfriends and make time to start a relationship with another guy...

 

[cklover]

I can't juggle a Woman & a Man at the same time....I can only deal with one person @ a time.

A person doesn't have to juggle a man and a woman at the same time in order to have a relationship. I only have a relationship with one person at a time; be it a man, a woman, or a transwoman. Juggling involves too much drama and can only lead to at least one party being hurt.

 

[Mattzrider]

I've dated both in HS. When it comes to chicks, I am extremely picky. Above-average looking cute or hot-bod guy on the other side of the bed however. . .

 

[Caaake]

Let the bi's dip into whoever they want. Variety can be the spice of life.

thank you lets enjoy and spread the love. How can giving more love be a bad thing?

 

[jude swings]

i just like fucking both. now if you're talking about being emotionally connected then girls win that one easily. for me dudes are best buds and that's it.