Bi Wants to Have Oral with Str8 Best Friend

[BiBlackMan]

I know this is silly and totally inappropriate, but it's a feeling I can't seem to stop having. I have a best friend that knows I'm bisexual and thankfully still considers me his friend and confidant. He's married with a toddler. He's very attractive, smart, funny and sexy. For the past several months I keep thinking about wanting to suck his cock and taste his cum. I jerk off a few times a week thinking about having his beautiful hard cock in my mouth.

I know this is wrong, but I really want to "offer" him oral sex with no reciprocation. Is there a way to ask or hint, or should I just keep this to myself until the desire dies on its own?

 

[looseliam]

Let it be.


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[neditesjamais]

Yeah, I'm with looseliam. Some things are best left inside your head.

 

[TX-Beau]

In my fantasy life, that hot cop (and they are all hot of course) that pulls me over, ends with his ass up over my hood telling me to bang him harder.

In real life, I'd probably end up shot if I tried to pull that off - oh and yeah, they never look like the fantasy guy.

 

[sixthson]

He's married with a child. Respect that.

 

[hotatlboi]

He's married. Oral sex is still cheating imo.

Do not suggest this.

 

[TX-Beau]

They're both married, so they'd both end up being the lying cheater.

But, fantasy is not reality and so far, no harm done.

Though I have to say that if the OP is serious about trying to get into this guy's pants, one wonders what kind of guy he is, and why he doesn't get out of a relationship he's obviously planning on betraying.

 

[racer2438]

Unless you want to be a home wrecker and lose and friend, this is not a good idea.

go find someone else, your better off keeping it a fantacy than acting on it, cus nothing good will come of it..move on

 

[Just_Believe18]

If I was married to a woman I loved, and if you were my friend, I would be insulted if you came up to me and asked to suck my dick. In fact, I would question your motives to being my friend in the first place and probably not talk to you anymore. I would then wonder if all bisexuals behaved this way.

 

[BiBlackMan]

This posting wan't my finest moment. I think most of you know that thoughts and desires aren't always controllable. I was hoping not to be judged, but that's life.

 

[bankside]

This posting wan't my finest moment. I think most of you know that thoughts and desires aren't always controllable. I was hoping not to be judged, but that's life.

Thoughts and desires aren't always controllable, but actions are. I don't plan on living out half the fantasies that are in my head. The others, okay

Everybody should have fantasies, and everybody should have fantasies they plan to never live out. But when you need to give your head a shake and get real, just remember this:

Ask his wife how to offer him oral sex.

 

[Just_Believe18]

This posting wan't my finest moment. I think most of you know that thoughts and desires aren't always controllable. I was hoping not to be judged, but that's life.

Please don't take it personally. I'm glad you took the initiative to come on this board and ask us for advice. The responses can be rough because it is reality, and a lot of us have found ourselves in similar situations. In the end, we only wish the best for you, and to find happiness. This kind of sexual fantasy would only make you miserable and sad in the end. I know I wouldn't want that for you.

 

[BiBlackMan]

Please don't take it personally. I'm glad you took the initiative to come on this board and ask us for advice. The responses can be rough because it is reality, and a lot of us have found ourselves in similar situations. In the end, we only wish the best for you, and to find happiness. This kind of sexual fantasy would only make you miserable and sad in the end. I know I wouldn't want that for you.

Thank you for posting such an understanding, kind response. It hurts to be (secretly) in love with your best friend.