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Bicurious or biconfused or whatever

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It's not annoying at all. You're questions are welcomed. You seem as if you are aroused by or attracted to a very specific type of man. However, he may be the only guy who ever arouses you. Have you tried looking at other guys who share similar features to him? That would definitely help you in determining if there are more possibilities for you. Don't stress over not being able to clearly define yourself with a label, but if you have a curiosity or desire, then explore.
 
Sexuality and being young are about exploration. If you have a liking for a certain type of guy and you enjoy jacking off to images of that type of guy, it doesn't make you gay or bi. It just means you have a fetish.

On the other hand, if you start experimenting and you find yourself comfortable having real life sex with guys and you enjoy the intimacy that comes with sexuality and relationships, then that is something altogether different. In this instance, if you need label then yes, you probably are gay or bi. But it's too early to make that leap.
 
A lot of straight men enjoy anal stimulation from a finger (their own or a woman's) or even a small Dildo It massages the prostate, giving them more pleasure.

However few really straight men would fantasize about sucking cock or being fucked.

It sounds as if you are discovering you're bi, since you get aroused by women in fantasy and real life.

I'd normally suggest to a bicurious gay that he experiment a bit with another guy. But if only a very specific type of guy appeals to you, that will be difficult to accomplish, unless you really put yourself out there in the gay community.
 
Though i personally cannot relate to your story, you sound a lot like one of my straight guy friends who went through a 'bicurious' phase. I mean, for him the thought of having sex with a man didn't appeal to him in any way (oral/anal). But the thought of being attracted and turned on by a guy was something he saw as possible. Though he no longer feels that way, he sometimes makes jokes or comments that he would go gay for Doctor House, lol!
 
straight men are repressed. we need to help them get in touch with themselves and us! =D
 
Thats pretty hot. You're the kind of guy I like, the ones who doesn't slap labels on every fucking thing. And confused, you say you're not into labels but in a way you're asking for one? You could like one type of guy now and have that expand as you get more comfortable with liking guys, or your views may stay completely the same as time goes on, there's no way to tell if it will be a phase or not. But what does it matter, does the possibility of it not just being a phase a scary thought? If you wana call it that, I go thru "phases" all the time I guess, sometimes for months I watch gay porn, and then take a break for a couple months because I'm not in the mood to watch it and can't get excited.

Oh, and I'm into men full scale and i'm like you in that.. big beefy muscular men do not do it for me at all. The boyish, hairless, cute face types get me. But I can get excited by gay porn with whoevers fucking because it's not the people i'm neccessarily looking at but how they fuck ya know? Just here to say I understand you.
 
I hate to say it but you may want to try having sex without a relationship. Maybe you can find a guy you find attractive and make a friendship-type bond with him first and go from there. Or if you find him attractive you can tell him the truth and he may understand and work with you :D
 
Might I suggest XTube? There's every sort of person there, so you're bound to find video of guys that actually do turn you on there.

Lex
 
Yea- just because you're not getting turned on by the guys used on in the porns that you're coming across doesn't mean you don't like gay porn all together. Like lex said, xtube is great or gayforit..
 
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