Black Internal RACISM: a brother who won't sleep with a brother is....

[bankside]

Re: Black Internal RACISM: a brother who won't sle

First of all, there’s a whole lot more to race than just the color of one’s skin. For example, certain races tend to have less hair than others, so someone who’s into hairy guys would tend to find that race less attractive. And if you only found blonds attractive, you’d pretty much be limited to Europeans.

What you said mostly makes a lot of sense, but where racial differences do look shallow and a sign of defective character is in the idea that it's "make it or break it." Especially in an example with something as trivial as hair colour. If somebody is into blonds, what does he do when his north european blond boyfriend goes out and dyes his hair black? Break up with him? Fail to get hard?

Or, what if he comes across a hot asian guy with enough hair on his chest to turn him on if it was any other guy. What does he say? I think your chest looks great, but other asian guys are totally smooth, so because of them, I can't find you attractive....

It is one thing to talk about trends, or averages, but it seems dumb to rule people out completely until I've met the person...

 

[BabiGayPimp]

Re: Black Internal RACISM: a brother who won't sle

I'm sorry, but I think preferring another race over your own, or to the complete exclusion of your own is intrinsically problematic and suggestive of deeper self-esteem issues, unless you belong to some race peopled by hordes of butt-ugly mutha-fuckas.

You can't be a black man in this world, falling all over white boys like they were Gods from up above and not look foolish. You need to get right with your people.

But by the same token, a hot, black man is so hard to get nowadays, that if you don't go white, brown, red, tan, and yellow ALSO, you will most likely be alone.

Everybody's got to do what they have to to get theirs. But you have to remember who you are and where you come from.

 

[MisterMajestic]

Re: Black Internal RACISM: a brother who won't sle

"exculsively fantasize, find attractive & actively pursue WHITE guys...at times this bothers
me..."

Simple solution...Start dating Black guys if you're feeling guilty......Seriously, date whoever you want..Just Live your Life and find the person that makes you happy and Loves you back...

The Good looking Black dudes that you turn away send them to me..Cause the majority of Gay & Bi-Brothers in my town WANT White Dudes...LOL..