Blowjob on the first date?

[dandy80]

I don`t see anything wrong with it... you liked eachother so ...
I agree with most posts above - if the guy is right then this is the right thing to do =)

 

[mrhands]

Maybe everyone should screw around a little on the first date (safely). It's a good icebreaker.

 

[Codtaro]

I did the same thing with my first date with my first boyfriend. And we're still very much in love.

you can tell alot about a guy by the sex he gives, so I think first date sex/blowjobs can be good for a relationship.

 

[demsducks]

There's nothing wrong with that. I've done a lot more than that on a first date.

 

[fag lick]

That's it? Just a blowjob? You're friend is too uptight. I hate it when it takes a long time for a guy to put the moves on me. I'd fuck on the first date, because I'd have to know if wanted to see him again.

 

[probable]

i wouldn't. do you have any idea the kinds of diseases you can get just from oral sex. i mean, i'm not saying "oh, you're a bad person" (and i would hope you're not saying that's i'm too uptight. because i'm not) but it seems like you'd like to know whether or not a person has chlamydia before you put their cock in your mouth... and that's not something people usually discuss on the first date.

 

[drinksinme]

Nothing wrong with that. I've been blown on 1st dates before....
So where do you live?

 

[nes-on-jub]

i wouldn't. do you have any idea the kinds of diseases you can get just from oral sex. i mean, i'm not saying "oh, you're a bad person" (and i would hope you're not saying that's i'm too uptight. because i'm not) but it seems like you'd like to know whether or not a person has chlamydia before you put their cock in your mouth... and that's not something people usually discuss on the first date.

i agree. and i'm not trying to be all high and mighty, but i think sex (oral or otherwise) should be special... at least a little. i'm probably naive though.

though... did you use a condom? ('cause there always has to be a safe-sex advocate in every thread... haha).

 

[CollegeBoi1985]

Thats slutty and degrading. Have some self-respect. For one, you could get a disease. Secondly, its people with your kind of mentality that make sex cheap and meaningless! Personally I think sex should be something that has meaning, intimacy and genuineness attached to it, not just a "good time" and I don't care how many people disagree. Thats my opinion, like it or not.

 

[subobj]

Er, CollegeBoi1985, what are you doing in the "Steamy Encounters - Rated R / XXX" forums if that's the way you feel?

 

[jakoff79]

I think people mix up gay dates with straight dates. Somehow girls are taught not to give in, until several dates later, so that guys do not sleep with them and then, dump them.

But as for guys, we tend to be ruled by the urge for sex (more than the girls) and hence, we don't mind sex in our first dates. I mean, do you see girls cruising the park for sex? Guys do. Guys think differently.

Wow! Someone who thinks exactly the same way as I do - wanna go on a date sometime?

 

[dadbear69]

Nothing wrong, enjoy! Seems as your friend was just jealous.

 

[Letenant]

Hi. I went out with a guy and I gave him head onh the first date then my friend was like I CANT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT. I dont think its that bad. anyway im looking for some advice. say hi if you want.

-Mike
My Outpersonals Profile

Hi Mike,

I'd ask you a few questions before saying too much. You may get some sense of my views from the questions...

1) What were your goals for the guy? ... for the date?

2) How and where did you come to know him? How well did you know him at this point?

3) Nevermind your friend's response... how did you feel about things? Did you enjoy doing it? How would you feel if the guy had no interest in you after it and had been just playing you for a bj (or whatever else)?

 

[Letenant]

Er, CollegeBoi1985, what are you doing in the "Steamy Encounters - Rated R / XXX" forums if that's the way you feel?

Why not? One can be steamy and sexual with people one actually knows before they play, can't he?

 

[Letenant]

I dont think its that bad. With me, I have the "no sex" policy for the first date because I have no idea who or what has been inside of him.

Do you normally practice "Safer Sex"?