Botched first attempt at anal

[FreedomBeautyTruthLove]

Hello! Long time lurker, first time poster. So I have a friend that I have been fooling around with, and finally today we had the time (and the privacy) to go all the way. I've never gone all the way before and he has, so I really wanted to top him. Unfortunately it was just a comedy of errors. He forgot the lube and I didn't have any handy nor any lotion so we tried using shaving cream, spit, etc. The condom kept slipping off. I'm apparently a bit thicker than the guys he is used to, so I was having some trouble getting in. On top of all that, I was kind of nervous, so I wasn't really as hard as I could be. I felt really bad, but he was understanding and we still had a great time, but I really just wanted to fuck! Do you think next time, with the proper lube and everything, it should go smoother? Like, am I supposed to just jam it in there, it almost felt like i was going to break my own dick! I can't believe sex is not as glamorous as in the pornos!

 

[HornyHenry]

I think that with the proper lube and patience you should succeed. Most assholes cant take the man jamming it in, especially if they havent been fucked much. If he's tight you need to enter him slowly until you're hilted in him, then leave it all the way up his ass for a few seconds to a minute so he gets used to your dick in him, then start fucking him.
I've had better fucks with the bottom laying on his stomach with me laying on his back. Make sure your dick is dry so the condom wont slip off.

 

[Seasoned]

Botched made be laugh. You didn't end up with a lopsided cake or a failed household repair.

Porn serves a purpose, but learning how to prepare an ass is typically not something we see while watching porn. Folks prepare behind the scene.

Both of you guys need foreplay and patience. If you begin with the intention you're going in and nothing else is done or said you're all of a sudden on stage. Do be prepared. Do play around. Do some hot talk together. It might be hot if he sits on it for starters. You have to learn the sensation of where you are poking at first or he has to help guide.

The bigger the production the easier for it to be unsuccessful. All the better if you guys laughed. I think sex is hilarious; my partner thinks it's a religious experience. I still laugh on the inside, but learned not to on the outside. Too bad for both of us, in my opinion.

Keep trying; keep laughing.

Welcome to JUB and Happy Valentine's Day.

 

[KaraBulut]

As the saying goes, "Practice makes perfect".

 

[FreedomBeautyTruthLove]

Lol thanks guys. Havent had a chance to experiment again will def keep all this in mind. Went out and bought some lube to keep handy know should the occasion arise soon.

 

[arpeggi]

All good advice here. My first two attempts failed miserably, but they were also with guys I didn't know too well and they didn't want to hurt me. I started prepping with a butt plug. I'm not sure it was necessary, it just made me want the real thing even more.

My first true anal sex was when being a top, and I did it with the same guy frequently then on. It was his first as well. I think I just knew from experience how careful to be and to take it slow. His comfort was my #1 priority. Eventually I got him to top for me, and it just got better and easier.

 

[palemale]

As the saying goes, "Practice makes perfect".

Yes, and if at first you don't succeed, try, try again.