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Bottomed first time

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I need some advice. I bottomed for the first time yesterday. It was a short 30 sec experience. I could feel a tight pressure in my ass and almost want to say heard a little popping or ripping. Once he got it in was so painful I asked him to stop. Well blood, not a lot, but enough to put small blood stains on the towel were a result of this short encounter. I spread my legs and look into the mirror and can see my anus has not fully closed down there and open about the size of a nickel. It doesn't feel tight like it use too. I used the bathroom, #2, and thankfully it doesn't hurt but I had some trace blood on the toilet paper. Is my ass permanently messed up?
 
no, it's not permanently messed up. it doesn't sound like you were quite ready to get topped. let yourself heal and try again. make sure you use lots of lube and try to relax. not everyone wants to be bottomed, so you may need to know that in the long run, this just isn't for you.
 
Be sure you let your top know next time that you've not done it alot. IF (and I mean IF) they know what they are doing, they'll make sure you 'open up' first before moving...and will take it slow until you relax....you can even practice a little first with your own fingers & Dildo to get you comfortable with it. It's not something someone should go to fast with on the first time. If you told the top that you'd never done it....I blame the top.
 
It went wrong this first time for you but don't give up. At first wait until your anus heals totally because another attempt could damage you. I would say give it at least two weeks.
 
In this forum, there are some good threads on how to prepare yourself for bottoming when you're not experienced at it.

Read through them.

To give you a brief answer- no, your ass will be fine in a day or so. The things that normally come out of your ass are not much smaller than what your partner put in it yesterday. Your ass can take a reasonably sized dick - and a whole lot more. You just need to practice a little before your next go-round.
 
You tore a bit. No big deal. You can tear like that from a large b.m.

Give it time to heal, and keep it clean.

Next time, lots of foreplay to loosen-up.
 
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