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kenzoid

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I met this guy and we get along pretty well. The next logical step is to hit the bedroom. However, I have some concerns as his penis belongs to the porn department i.e. pretty thick and long. Because of his size, he told me not many men were willing to bottom for him.

I want to ask if any of you has ever been fucked by guys with that kind of size. Was it painful, uncomfortable, or difficult? Was the sex enjoyable after the initial "introduction"? How did you handle it? I'm sure a lot of lube would be needed. My ex's was average so I had no problem taking his. But this guy's size is like "your porn fantasy has come true". But to me, it's more like "disconcerting".

Any information and tips are greatly appreciated.
 
One thing you'll want to do is be sure, even more than usual, that you're properly douched. Eat plenty of fiber the day or two before.

It'll be even more important than usual that you're relaxed, so you'll want to be free from worry about odoriferous mishaps. (Unless both of you are into that.)

You'll need to be the one guiding things in terms of how far and how quickly to penetrate. Don't be afraid to ask him to pull out temporarily if the pain is too great. That said, if things start to hurt, try telling him just to remain in place while you breathe and relax and wait for the pain to subside.
 
kenzoid said:
I met this guy and we get along pretty well. The next logical step is to hit the bedroom. However, I have some concerns as his penis belongs to the porn department i.e. pretty thick and long. Because of his size, he told me not many men were willing to bottom for him.

I want to ask if any of you has ever been fucked by guys with that kind of size. Was it painful, uncomfortable, or difficult? Was the sex enjoyable after the initial "introduction"? How did you handle it? I'm sure a lot of lube would be needed. My ex's was average so I had no problem taking his. But this guy's size is like "your porn fantasy has come true". But to me, it's more like "disconcerting".

Any information and tips are greatly appreciated.
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The answer is, really, "What are you used to taking?".

If you had been using larger dildos or if you had experience taking similar sized dicks, then there wouldn't be as much concern. The fact that you're here asking is probably an indication that you might be... um... in over your head.

If this is a mountain that you want to climb, you might want to invest in some butt plugs of similar size and start working out with them to train. If you find the butt plugs to be too much of a challenge, then that might be your answer on the short-term. On the other hand, if you are able to handle a similarly sized butt plug, then you should be able to take on the challenge.

Lots of lube, yes. You might want to start with a position like cowboy or reverse cowboy where you have more control over the speed of things. If it hurts, then stop. Do something else for a while and try again.

You may also want to talk up front with your partner about "plan B". If it continues to hurt, then be honest with him that it hurts. Don't suffer through it. The pain is an indication that you've been stretched beyond your limit and that you might be risking an anal fissure. If you've given it a try and it's not happening, then go through with plan B, where you both get to do what you enjoy, just without you getting fucked. Then try again another day.
 
Silicone lube A good quality silicone lube Wet Platinum, Wet Uranus (thicker for anal especially) or Pjur Analyse me!
 
AND TIME! This cannot be stressed ENOUGH GO SLOWLY!!! Rome wasnt built in a day!
 
How big are we talking? 10+ inches and like coke can thick? Cause i couldn't handle that myself, I have some rather large dildos i like trying to get inside me and one is so hard feeling and big thick around i never get past the head. I agree with others lots of lube and go slow. never been with a Real Cock in me ( Still dream about it happening one day) but with my toys. i go slower with the larger ones then the smaller ones. My like perfect sized ones are about 8 inches long and a good handful thick.
 
OMG 😲! This question brings back memories for me. I had just started bottoming and hooked up with this guy with a 9.5-inch cock and it was thick also.

I was still mostly inexperienced. He penetrated me and I was not at all stretched out. OUCH! He saw the grimace on my face and pulled out. Luckily for me he lost his erection after that and was not able to get it back.

I promised myself this situation will never happen again. I bought a big and thick Dildo to stretch my ass out and to train it to accept huge cocks. I've never had this problem since. Now, I can take any size cock.
 
mbamike said:
OMG 😲! This question brings back memories for me. I had just started bottoming and hooked up with this guy with a 9.5-inch cock and it was thick also.

I was still mostly inexperienced. He penetrated me and I was not at all stretched out. OUCH! He saw the grimace on my face and pulled out. Luckily for me he lost his erection after that and was not able to get it back.

I promised myself this situation will never happen again. I bought a big and thick dildo to stretch my ass out and to train it to accept huge cocks. I've never had this problem since. Now, I can take any size cock.
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May I ask what Dildo you bought? I'm looking for one too.
 
mbamike said:
It's just a big dildo that's about 8" long and 2.5" in diapers. It has a strong suction cup base and sticks to the wall really well. I can just backup into it.
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Nice. Where did you get it from?
 
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