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Do Bromances really exist? Two best friends who like to suck and fuck on the side while they have a gf or wife and it is just sex?
I’d love to have something like that but does anyone currently have a buddy like that or in the past ?
 
To me, Bromance need not include sex. My best friend and I have a Bromance and he is perfectly straight. Once he stated a party that we were in a Bromance. I love everything about him entirely but would not jeopardize our relationship with sex.
 
Bromance was a term straight guys used to indicate that they loved each other. It has rarely - if ever - included sex. It's friendship-based.
Where did you come across the idea that it included sex? I think the bromance is great: straight guys can be emotionally open with each other and break the cycle of closed-down, emotionless, pat-on-the-back "manly" relationships like our fathers had. But sex? That's not even close to the concept of a bromance. that's just men who have sex with men (and there's a book about that, by the way), and it is the opposite of a bromance.
 
Search it on the internet, it really has turned into a big thing.
 
mcbrion said:
Bromance was a term straight guys used to indicate that they loved each other. It has rarely - if ever - included sex. It's friendship-based.
Where did you come across the idea that it included sex? I think the bromance is great: straight guys can be emotionally open with each other and break the cycle of closed-down, emotionless, pat-on-the-back "manly" relationships like our fathers had. But sex? That's not even close to the concept of a bromance. that's just men who have sex with men (and there's a book about that, by the way), and it is the opposite of a bromance.
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Yes, this is exactly correct. It is a non-sexual, but affectionate and intimate (emotionally) relationship between two men. Many straight "best friends" are bromances, but not always. I've had four bromances with straight men over the years. Interestingly, in each case, it was they who started it and took the relationship to that intense level.

In 3 of the 4 cases, they were emotionally-needy initially, and I was a good listener (according to them). I think they just wanted to be listened to and felt like someone understood them and cared. That led to affection, but also the discovery of common interests and a clicking of chemistry. The other one wasn't needy at all, just a friendly sort with whom we had a lot in common and, again, chemistry clicked.

Straight men can be incredibly forthcoming and open and intimate emotionally if given the chance and the trust is there. The bromances eventually petered out as we all moved on with life. Two got married and became sucked into the orbits of their wives, which is fine and understandable. One moved away, and one I made a mistake with: I came onto him a moment of weakness, and in a particularly clumsy way. He was gracious, and accepted apologies, etc. (he knew I was gay but thought we each understood boundaries), but gradually pulled away and lost contact. I think that's one of the frustrating things about a bromance between a straight guy and a gay guy, quite honestly.
 
Yes and you'd be surprised how many keep it their cherished secret. Bromance might be the wrong word
 
novastar said:
Yes and you'd be surprised how many keep it their cherished secret. Bromance might be the wrong word
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If there's sex, it's not really a bromance, it's just men having sex with men, given the definition of "bromance" is "a close but nonsexual relationship between two men."
What you're talking about does not fit the definition of 'bromance.'
 
I am lucky to be in a bromance with my best friend. He is straight and married with kids and I am very aware of physical boundaries.
I would never do anything to break the friendship but it is hard as I love him so much and we have a great connection.
I am biased of course but he really is the best guy that anyone could ever meet and I feel very very lucky to have this connection.
I always just think that in another existence we would have been together and that thought does help.
It is over 3 years now and there isn't a single day we don't talk, I really just feel lucky.
 
Why do we need to keep coming up with all these stupid cutsey names for anything and everything? Jesus fucking christ, it's simply called being friends. I've had straight male close best friends growing up, they were just my close friends, we weren't in a "bromance".
 
^ My bromance is more than just friends. We can touch, hug and and on a couple of climbs, we've held hands before extreme exposure. We've got each other in so many ways. He often makes things not just doable, but happy and joyful. He knows I'm bi and pretty comfortable with guys but all labels aside, we've got each other's back with respect and love.
 
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