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Buddy Can't cum with girlfriend

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So i have a buddy that recently told me he is "curious", but will never let anything happen. He has a girlfriend. They mess around but do not have sex. He says he can't cum when she gives him a hand job or blow job. I tend to think he may be more interested in guys and that is the issue but he is stressing about being curious and I do not want to make it worse so I don't say it. Any opinions on what the issue might be? Think I am right? he's 22.
 
It could be that he is gay or it could be that his dick is too used to his own hand to respond to his gf's hand or mouth. If he is gay, I hope he doesn't let his gf get too tangled up in his mess. If it is a matter of his dick being to used to his own hand, he needs to ease up on the self pleasuring.

Are you interested in him?
 
I mean I would mess with him, being curious too but not while he had a girlfriend.
 
I concur with Sixthson; tell him to stop jacking off 4 times daily...once every other day or even once a week will make him more responsive to her (or even your) touch! As for whether he is truly gay or bi is immaterial...the question is whether he's attracted to you, or maybe he does not want to ruin a good friendship?

I would tell him to think long and hard about getting into a serious relationship with this girl...no need to be roped into a shotgun wedding and instant family unit, while still having "curious" urges.

Don't take it personally if the feeling is not mutual...you should take the time to discover your true self, find another gay virgin to broaden eachother's horizons.

"Know thyself," afterall.
 
When I was dating my ex, I could never cum easily just from a bj or hj. It's different for everyone. But what people have suggested or all possibilities.
 
A couple of things here, she may just lack technique or she may not appeal to him - which means that he has got to 'fess up and move on.
The great thing about self gratification is that the speed and pressure are always right !
 
ya he says she does a good job and he gets hard and all he just says he can't cum. He actually really doesn't jerk off that much. He said something is just missing. I am not pushing him and I if it happens it happens,
 
Tell him to fuck her in the ass, and close his eyes and dream she's a man, that's what I do with my wife.
 
her hand's position might be some of it, and/or a lack of lube. I know when women jack me off it only feels good enough to cum when they're behind me so their hand is stroking me the way mine does, of there's a lot of lube so it doesn't feel irritating when skin that isn't used to contact get's stroked.

Some guys don't cum from oral, period. It might also be other factors like technique, the way her mouth hits sensitive spots, or other a dozen other issues. It does not make him unattracted to her or secretly bi or gay.
 
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