Buddy Confidentiality

[JasunStrikesBack]

Good Gravy, are you 12?

Grown men pussy-footing around like kids.. too scared to just get it on.

Men who play games are so boring. It's why your nights that could be hot just end up with you bored.

 

[bankside]

Whether he's gay or not, I don't know.

But he definitely gets his kicks out of flustering you on the subject...

That is a fun game for a while, but now I think you can up the ante, if you want to...
Next time he plays the "I'm flirting with you but I'm just joking if anybody asks" game, look him straight in the eye with a big grin, and tell him "well, not for anybody else, but you've convinced me to give it a try.."

He'll stand there, trying to figure out what's going on now that the shoe is on the other foot...
and then you just grin. You may need to say "You heard me...." Then change the subject.

You need to find a way to let him know he can't keep serving and expecting you to run after the ball. Put the ball in his court, but let him know if he hits it back, he's in for more than he bargained for.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Next time he plays the "I'm flirting with you but I'm just joking if anybody asks" game, look him straight in the eye with a big grin, and tell him "well, not for anybody else, but you've convinced me to give it a try.."

He'll stand there, trying to figure out what's going on now that the shoe is on the other foot...
and then you just grin. You may need to say "You heard me...." Then change the subject.

You need to find a way to let him know he can't keep serving and expecting you to run after the ball. Put the ball in his court, but let him know if he hits it back, he's in for more than he bargained for.

Yes.

More childish games.

That's what he needs.

Sheesh, why is it that grown men act like such little boys and can't fucking strap on a pair?

 

[bankside]

Yes.

More childish games.

That's what he needs.

Sheesh, why is it that grown men act like such little boys and can't fucking strap on a pair?

Yes, I know you like having a "cynical" knob that goes all the way up to 11. But you need to turn your knob down to 10 for a moment.

Then, you'd see that I'm suggesting that HunterM finds a humorous way to let the guy know that games won't cut it any more, and that Brian is gettting taken a little more seriously than he bargained for. Which could lead to a fun thing.

I know the other approach would be to "strap on a pair" and say "hey you're hot - i bet you want my cock. lets go fuck." but there are other ways to go about dealing with people without playing games.

 

[JasunStrikesBack]

Actually, my way of dealing with it would be a bit more cool and less like the script of a bad porn movie. Ironic, I know.

If there are other ways of dealing with people than playing games, why are you suggesting that he keep the games going? How about when they're sitting shirtless on the couch that he just make his move and kiss his friend? or.. something?

I mean, really.. the holding pattern hasn't worked yet.. it's time to grow up and go get what he wants.

 

[MisterMajestic]

I agree with you Jasun....HunterM and his "straight" friend keep having these "moments" or "game playing"...

Sorry folks, but Gay or Straight that shit gets OLD after a while...At this point HunterM should be OVER his attraction to his Bud and move on..But there are people that "play" like that for DECADES...VERY Strange type of friendship but it happens...