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Came out, feels hated

Demon_Knight69

Demon_Knight69

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So I finally decided to come out to everyone because of sexual and mental frustrations and now I am paying severely for it. There have been several things that have happened since then:

1) No-one seems to want to talk to me anymore, they don't answer phones calls or texts or emails anymore.

2) My roommate is kicking me out so I now have to live in my car as I can't get anything like an apartment or room to rent, (credit score is really bad).

3) Have posted on craigslist about having fun with a man but when they see my face and body pics I send them, I never hear back from them, which makes my fear of being fat and ugly true.

4) Even though I have a job I am going to be living in my car I don't know how long.

5) I just feel like my life has gone from bad to worse and I don't know if I can even take it any longer.

Things just keep going bad to worse, its been almost 9 years since I have been with a man or woman and I just want a release from what I am feeling.

If anyone out there is willing to help please, I need all the help I can get.
 
No craigslist. After we talk and all, they ask for my pics and when they get them, nothing from them
 
Thank you for the links, took a look at them and they require a credit check and don't allow dogs and I am not letting my baby go
 
You are in a tough spot and you definitely need support. I'm sorry your coming out has had this impact on you.

Your first task is to find a new place to live and then to meet people who accept and care about you.

It's important to tap into community resources and to find available counseling.

After you get through the immediate crisis, and you will, you'll realize that the purpose of coming out was to relieve yourself of the burden of carrying a secret. Never again will you have to wonder about being accepted and you'll gravitate to open minded people.

Like all of us, you have multiple issues, with self-esteem also being something you'll have to deal with to live in peace. Few have model good looks so stop thinking that's what you need to be wanted or desirable. Few people are truly ugly. The rest of us are in the middle and we use a combination of outward and inward qualities to attract friends and lovers.

Accepting yourself is as essential as finding a roof for over your head.
 
Are you sure your roommate has the legal right to kick you out? Check before you move.
 
Thats a tough one.
I think every city should have an emergency shelter for people to wash, shower and sleep.

Like a 24 hour public building/hall with showers ?
 
It's actually his property and he doesn't charge me rent. But I did tell him and he seems okay with it for now. Just have to wait and see.
 
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