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Can a bottom, become a top???

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Hi!

I'm 47 and I've been mostly on the receiving end, but I was recently propositioned from someone who wanted me to top them. I'm kinda nervous. I've topped once, that was years ago. It was ok, but I think I bottom more, cause it's easier. Any advice? Words of wisdom?

Thanks.
 
Just relax and enjoy yourself.
Sex is not a marathon, neither it is a competition. Topping can be very pleasurable, exactly because it takes more effort. Usually you can be more in control too.
 
Thanks! My concern is I may not be able to keep it up... But I guess there's a pill for that :)
 
i have learned the best tops used to be bottoms :) (( or have bottomed)) so they know the ropes and angles for the ooohs and ahhs
 
Thanks for the comments. I'm supposed to meet up later this week. I'll let you know how it goes.
 
I was an exclusive bottom when I first came out. I wouldn't even let the guys touch my dick and I would never cum. I was then asked by a cute guy to top him. I decided to give it a shot. I've been an exclusive top since then with no desire to bottom again. Having been a bottom really does inform how you top. Let that guide you. Maybe this guy will help you open up your vers side if things go the way you want. I love being a top now and don't want to change it, but vers guys, really do have more fun...lol.
 
versa39 said:
i have learned the best tops used to be bottoms :) (( or have bottomed)) so they know the ropes and angles for the ooohs and ahhs
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True for me. I was a top...then a bottom for 4-5 years...then a top since....and I am good at it:mrgreen:

So yes...a bottom can become a top. I never really referred to myself as either one though as a rule.....
 
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