Can't erm... finish...

[hotlatinchulo348]

So, I was finally having sex with this guy I'm really starting to like the other night. Everything was great, amazing in fact. We went at it like animals for quite awhile and then he came... but then I couldn't.. after awhile I kinda just gave up because I didn't want to look stupid. So we just stopped and kissed for a while. What's wrong with me?!?!

 

[KaraBulut]

Has this happened before? Are you on any medications?

 

[stokeboy]

I wouldn't worry about it these things happen sometimes

 

[3nipples]

That happens to me whenever I go at it for too long without blowing... past a certain point and I could last forever... what you need to do is let yourself rest for a few minutes - maybe excuse yourself for a bathroom break or get something to drink - and then start again and let yourself come.

 

[hotlatinchulo348]

It happens a lot actually. Even if I don't masterbate for a long time before hand. I can cum a lot faster when I bottom but I would much rather top.

 

[KaraBulut]

Are you able to pull out and finish by jacking off onto your partner?

 

[Zeno Lorea]

This has never happened to me in casual sex, but when I was interested in more, it could make me nervous, clumsy, etc. I had this with my boyfriend the first two or three times we dated. Not before that, when we fucked in sex clubs. Perhaps you are in love?

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Isn't it good that you can last longer?

 

[Nelson]

Some guys have this problem - the opposite of premature ejaculation - retarded ejaculation when they are with new sex partners.

Like Karabulut asked - are you taking any meds?

Do you have problems cumming when you masturbate alone or is just when you are with a partner?

 

[CaptainRush]

Maybe what ever is rubbing your penis just isn't tight enough. If you are not circumcised I believe it can make a difference in how you are being rubbed.

Don't even worry about it. Just jack off after on him to blend it in maybe... I don't know, lol.

 

[we32psu]

Nerves or meds, that is my guess. I was on a a happy drug for a while, and could not "finish" either.

Good luck on that one.