Cheater Anxiety

[AedelWulf]

I know what it's like to have hour-after-hour, and day-after-day filled with Anxiety while wondering if someone you love, really couldn't care less.

It's happened to me so many times that I've gotten extremely good at finding out if I was being cheated on. I figured that I might be able to make it easier for someone else by posting in a forum like this. So,if anyone needs help, I can probably make it a quick process... So just message me if you do.


Also,if you actively use the Grindr app, I can provide a lot of tips on utilizing the "Xtra" features more efficiently.

 

[rareboy]

Sorry to hear about your experiences.

But I wonder if your anxiety is actually a factor in relationships. If you spend 24/7 worrying about whether you are being cheated on, then I would hazard a guess that you may be repeatedly
deciding to love someone without them having the same feelings about a relationship from the outset.

If you have a neurotic relationship where it starts out with mutual love and attraction, your jealousy and anxiety may be driving a wedge between you and your partner.

In any event, I hope that you have taken the opportunity to see a therapist about your constant anxiety and free yourself from this burden.

 

[LeicsDom]

But I wonder if your anxiety is actually a factor in relationships. If you spend 24/7 worrying about whether you are being cheated on, then I would hazard a guess that you may be repeatedly
deciding to love someone without them having the same feelings about a relationship from the outset.

I long a go had the realisation that if someone was going to cheat then my worrying about it wasn't going to influence it either way.

 

[72-Jay]

I've never been in a relationship & thus never been cheated on...
But I can say that even the thought of being cheated on and/or otherwize ending up heartbroken gives me bad feelings.
As much as I like the thought of having someone to be close with, in some ways I'm glad I'm nearly unfriendable/unloveable, because it prevents the chance of ending up heartbroken.

As for Grindr, I don't use it as I have zero interest in random hookups.