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Coming out to brother and best friend

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I'm so stoked right now :D. Came out to my best friend tonight, though had to do it over msn 'cause he's in Norway for a couple months. We had a pretty deep conversation and he sort of presented me with the perfect setting to come out. His reaction was pretty good and he asked me so many things, I just couldn't stop smiling :). So then my brother came walking in, who I hadn't seen for a while. And he knew something was up with me and knew that I sort of wanted to tell him something, but didn't know just how to do it. So he came in and directed the conversation to homosexuality, and then I came out to him. And he was totally awesome, he said if my parents would not accept me I could stay at his place till I'd find a room of my own, and he'd try and see how my parents would react to gay friends of his. But then he said he had sort of known for quite a while. And I was sort of surprised at that, so I asked him how. Turns out he had known for like 5 years. 5 Years ago I got a new dvd-player, and my parents got my old one. So my brother who is sort of the whizz-kid of the family went to install my old dvd-player, and there was still a disc of mine in there. So he turns on the player and presses play, and finds out a cd-rom was still in there with some of my porn on it LOL. So some naked guy turns up on the bigass tv-screen and he's like 'wtf', and quickly turns off the player so my parents don't see it. Then he hands me back the disc and I had no idea whether he had seen it or not, but he didn't act any different, so I guessed he hadn't. Turns out that's how he found out I was gay, but he didn't want to push me into a corner. He had talked about it with his gf and he said they'd both accept me and I could always crash at their place or call him if I wanted to talk. It was soooo embarassing but I'm just laughing my ass off now when I think of him seeing my gay porn. My brother's the best :gogirl:! I'm so glad I came out to him now. Just my parents and my other brother left now!
 
Your friend sounds good but your
brother is truly awesome.
Good luck with your parents and
other brother. Let us know, good luck.
Welcome to JUB.
shea
 
Congratulations!!!
Yeah, your bro is totally cool!
Let us know what happens..
 
Fantastic to hear you have such a great friend, and your brother sounds awesome!

When I told my sister (the first family member I told), she was like "that's so cool!". I think she was more excited about it than I was :P
 
Congratz!!

I'm out to all of my friends now and my brother is next on my list. I hope it goes just a well.

Good job.
 
Aww.....congratulations! I'm so scared of coming out...you are so totally lucky to have had an easy time so far. Good luck with the rest of the family. I'm sure you'll be OK. By the way, if that pic is of you, you are really so totally cute!
 
.....he didn't want to push me into a corner. He had talked about it with his gf and he said they'd both accept me and I could always crash at their place or call him if I wanted to talk. It was soooo embarassing but I'm just laughing my ass off now when I think of him seeing my gay porn. My brother's the best :gogirl:! I'm so glad I came out to him now. Just my parents and my other brother left now!

Congratulations! Your brother is awesome. Good luck with the next steps.

Welcome to JUB! (*8*)
 
Cheers guys, thanks for the great replies and the warm welcome :D

@ ZeroPoint84: lol that's a sweet reaction, I get that from most girls actually :-)
@ Lasosa: good luck telling your bro, I bet he'll be fine with it! (*8*)
@ dairyking469: I've been very lucky so far yeah, but I guess everyone's very scared to come out. It's definitely worth it though, it's nice to just say what you want to instead of having to hide stuff. Hope you'll be able to come out some day (*8*) Oh and the guy on my avatar is Levi Brock, a porn star from a couple years back I think. You should be able to find some of his stuff through the JUB forums :D

Thanks again guys, I'll keep you all posted on the progress with the rest of my family!
 
So I came out to my parents yesterday. It was weird because I had so many scenarios in my head, except for the one that took place. My mom started crying immediately which sort of shocked me, and my dad was a bit quiet but they said stuff like: 'Whatever makes you happy', 'You should have told us before instead of struggling with it'. They weren't surprised or anything but they hadn't been expecting it, my brother told me they had told him afterwards that if anyone in the family was to be gay they'd have said it'd be my other brother heh.
So anyways they're totally ok with it, and I guess I'm completely out now to the people I wanted to tell personally :D. It feels unreal though, guess it hasn't really sunk in yet ;).
 
Echt heel goed van je! Geniet maar van de opluchting!

Ok, in English now: Very good! Enjoy the relief.
I also told my parents recently. Although I'm still doubting, but I was the one to cry and not my mother. Luckily my parents completely accept it and all... But we live in a liberal country, so your parents will soon accept I too!
 
Echt heel goed van je! Geniet maar van de opluchting!

Ok, in English now: Very good! Enjoy the relief.
I also told my parents recently. Although I'm still doubting, but I was the one to cry and not my mother. Luckily my parents completely accept it and all... But we live in a liberal country, so your parents will soon accept I too!

Dankje!
My parents have been great about it the past couple of days so I guess they're really ok with it.

@ Puff (*8*) Hope he'll accept it in time.
 
If only all gay youth were as lucky as you are.
Regrettably we live in a world that still has so much ignorance and prejudice.
Enjoy your life, it should be a little easier with so much love and support from those who matter.
 
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