Coming out to Brother

[jacobboy2011]

i want to come out to my brother befor i tell my parents. I hoping he will back me for support when i tell my parents.

I think my bro will be cool with it but i really don't want to make it a big issue when i tell him.

What's an easy way to just throw it out there. I think he might even know but he is probely waiting for me to tell him. He nor my famil has even seen me with a girl in over 7 years. i think that a big enought hin, but they have never asked me if i'm gay so i never felt like i should tell them if they didn't ask

Do you have any experiences tell you brother?

 

[Adan0316CumOnMe]

I don't have experience telling my brother but I told my cousin who might as well be my brother (we grew up very close) and I was basically in the same situation ... he took it very well he had basically figured it out throughout our life but didn't wanna bring it up cause he didn't wanna offend me.

I still remember the conversation is one I'll remember it till I probably die lol

Me: "Chris can I tell you something?
Chris: "Sure"
Me: "... I'm Bi"
Chris: "Ok"
Me: "That's it?"
Chris: "Huh?"
Me: "I was expecting a different reaction."
Chris: "Dude I know rainbows straighter than you."

I love my cousin he rocks hardcore lol but yeah good luck coming out let us know how it goes.

 

[bluepheonix]

Chris: "Dude I know rainbows straighter than you."

lol wow, awesome line. Goodluck soma, i have to tell my brother soon too, hes going away the end of this year and I want him to know before I tell dad, i think, like with adan's approach, best way is to go straight to the point, know what you want to say, ask if he has anything at all he wants to ask, and be ready to talk him through how you feel if he wants to know. Goodluck dude.

 

[kramer362]

one great thing about brothers is you don't have to sugarcoat anything.

You've seen each other at your worst and best. Some of the worst you've been in was probably because of them, or something the two of you were doing. Same with the best.

Brother's have a special bond. You grew up together fighting imaginary armies, conquering mountains, and accomplishing the impossible with your imagination.

When I told my brother he shrugged "ok, so what are we gonna get for dinner?"

Like I said, no sugarcoating neccasarry. Tell him you've got something to say, and say it. To do otherwise betrays whatever bond, closeness, and trust you have in each other.

i always wanted a brother, all i got was a crummy sister

 

[Adan0316CumOnMe]

Don't bash sisters my best friends sister knows I'm Bi and loves trying to hook me up and sends me pics of all her cute guy friends ... I love her lol

 

[954dude]

Do not fret, he is your brother. You should feel comfortable enough to tell him. It shouldn't be a huge deal.

 

[Tizinsane]

Yeah, sisters are cool, too. When I do come out it'll probably be to my sis first.

Good luck, tell us how it goes!