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So Im completely straight. Like Im just not attracted to men at all. Sure Ill have sex with guys, but its always the sex, not them that gets me going. Thing is I have the body of a bottom. Im a total twink. Like my ass is really sensitive to. So then Im like. Ok ill just get a chick with a strap-on. But when Im with woman Im on top. Like something in me simply demands it be that way.
So Im like okay Ill just find some guys thatll fuck me. So I do, but then everytime they end up actually liking me. So then we have to end it there cause I dont wanna lead em on. Not exactly sure if I should just stop at this point.
 
Hey say what you want. It is what it is. Im just actually not attracted to men.
 
NameIsR said:
Hey say what you want. It is what it is. Im just actually not attracted to men.
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But you like sex with male's and females, sounds like you are Bi.
Go with it as there is something going on in your head.
 
I suppose that would work, but is that correct. I already tried to see if I liked guys, but it never really caught on. Meh, maybe it's just a phase or somethin.
 
If you don't want anything more from men than sex, you can always just stick to hook-ups and one night stands. There are so many ways to meet guys that just want meat, and then move on to the next conquest. Having a woman wear a strap-on won't work because you know it's a woman, you can't pretend it's a real dick. If you just want to satisfy your anal urges, get some toys. Don't put a woman you're dating through this, they need honesty. You could be uncomfortable with the idea of being gay, or in denial to yourself. Were you raised in really religious household? Maybe you should not date anyone for a while, work on yourself and get this figured out: what is it that you really want? What are you afraid of? And leave your options open, try dating guys when get yourself sorted out a little better. Don't put out on the first date, get to know him. It sounds like everytime a guy likes you, you have to end it. First, don't have sex before you get to know him. Being comfortable with a guy beyond sex will help you figure out how much you like each other. Maybe you end it with these guys because you don't like them beyond the sex, not because you're incapable of having a relationship with a guy. If that's the case, don't worry, they probably weren't right for you anyhow.
 
Oh, I wouldn't be doing this if I was dating. I don't have any particular hang ups about being gay or bi either. Which is why it feels weird. If I was it would make a lot more sense to me and it wouldn't be an issue at all. I've had male friends who were gay or bi that I was really close with. Honestly I don't have a particular attachment to it being a real dick either. It's just a lot easier to find a guy then a girl into strap on stuff. Basically it's a means to an end. An end I'm not even particularly sure how I feel about. Basically, I heard anal apparently feels great and so far it's been kinda meh. Like I can't say I love it, but I don't dislike it. So I'm figuring either I'll get whatever feeling people are talking about eventually or it'll never happen and I'll probably ditch the notion altogether.
Could be I was just bored with normal sex and felt like switching it up.
 
seioussuction69 said:
If you don't want anything more from men than sex, you can always just stick to hook-ups and one night stands. There are so many ways to meet guys that just want meat, and then move on to the next conquest. Having a woman wear a strap-on won't work because you know it's a woman, you can't pretend it's a real dick. If you just want to satisfy your anal urges, get some toys. Don't put a woman you're dating through this, they need honesty. You could be uncomfortable with the idea of being gay, or in denial to yourself. Were you raised in really religious household? Maybe you should not date anyone for a while, work on yourself and get this figured out: what is it that you really want? What are you afraid of? And leave your options open, try dating guys when get yourself sorted out a little better. Don't put out on the first date, get to know him. It sounds like everytime a guy likes you, you have to end it. First, don't have sex before you get to know him. Being comfortable with a guy beyond sex will help you figure out how much you like each other. Maybe you end it with these guys because you don't like them beyond the sex, not because you're incapable of having a relationship with a guy. If that's the case, don't worry, they probably weren't right for you anyhow.
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Great advice here for NameIsR
 
NameIsR said:
So Im completely straight. Like Im just not attracted to men at all. Sure Ill have sex with guys, but its always the sex, not them that gets me going. Thing is I have the body of a bottom. Im a total twink. Like my ass is really sensitive to. So then Im like. Ok ill just get a chick with a strap-on. But when Im with woman Im on top. Like something in me simply demands it be that way.
So Im like okay Ill just find some guys thatll fuck me. So I do, but then everytime they end up actually liking me. So then we have to end it there cause I dont wanna lead em on. Not exactly sure if I should just stop at this point.
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I'm the worst english writer but
this is something different, different style ? :lol:
 
NameIsR - At least you know what you like! A LOT of people don't...
Labels are a downfall when others are trying to place a label to who you are and what you like.

NameIsR - Lots of men identify with being straight because, ultimately, they really just want a relationship with a woman at the end of the day regardless of the sexual desires. Your sexuality sounds fairly fluid, so whether it be gay/straight/bi, it's just who you are! And am glad you embrace it, and pinpoint what you want out of it.
 
NameIsR said:
So Im completely straight. Like Im just not attracted to men at all. Sure Ill have sex with guys, but its always the sex, not them that gets me going. Thing is I have the body of a bottom. Im a total twink. Like my ass is really sensitive to. So then Im like. Ok ill just get a chick with a strap-on. But when Im with woman Im on top. Like something in me simply demands it be that way.
So Im like okay Ill just find some guys thatll fuck me. So I do, but then everytime they end up actually liking me. So then we have to end it there cause I dont wanna lead em on. Not exactly sure if I should just stop at this point.
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There are plenty of guys that would just wnat to fuck, and not date you. Find them.
 
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