Confused gay guy.

[FabFairy]

HUH?? Confused!! Perhaps not maybe your just a Bisexual!!

PS Don't believe it if anyone tells you Bisexual are a myth!! LOL

Now if your are Live with your Boyfriend and sneak out to see your Girlfriend!!

 

[swarley]

you're most likely bi. I, being gay, seriously could never picture in a million years fantasizing about what you're fantasizing about. To me, the thought of having sex with a girl would just be weird and awkward.

 

[12fear99]

I think you still gets excited over her because sex with her is different than with your bf. So you are bi thats your business. Trying to hide everything from the others puts more pressure on you to make sure no one else finds out. I have been there.

 

[G-Lexington]

You had sex with her.
You enjoyed it.
The memory excites you.
Also, your last gay experience didn't go so well, so you may be retreating to a "safer" sexual fantasy.

Whatever it is, enjoy it. But I'd hold of on calling her. You've got enough drama in your life without dragging the ex-girlfriend into it.

Lex

 

[backpacker]

Have you truly accepted being gay? You may be having thoughts of her for the same reason you were with her in the first. Being bi is a possibility, but at this point it's hard to tell. Don't worry too much about labels. Being gay or straight isn't black and white for many people. There are many shades of gray. Just go with what feels right to you and things will work out in time.

 

[ctkid1987]

Your a guy. That's what guy's brains do.

 

[tallguy297]

Ok, my defintion of bi-sexual is someone who can have emotional attachments to both sexes, I'm only like that with one sex, and that is guys. She's the only woman i've had sex with, and the only woman I fantasize about, I seriously am regretting this because it's starting to fuck with my head and now i'm completely and utterly confused.

Hey mate.... first of all... Welcome to JUB!!! Its great to have you on board!

I highlighted the part that I think might be causing you the issues mate. You are trying to fit yourself into a box that really just doesnt exist.

Your sexuality can be a fluid and dynamic thing... and I really beleive that your ability to have an emotional connection is more about the other person than their sex. Theres so many str8 guys who emotionally connect with male friends and it throws them into turmoil because they wonder if they are gay or not... and this is really no different.

Your ex might be the only girl you ever connect with. Then again there could be 100 more in your lifetime.

Weedme, I reckon it simply means that you have the ability to open your heart and to trust other people, no matter their sex. And that mate is a talent and trait that lots and lots of people either struggle to or never develop.

It means you get way more from your friends family and lovers. It means that you arent afraid to let people see the real you... and in turn you get to see them too. And thats a bloody great way to live your life.

So mate, just live your life, happy knowing that you can find love and a connection with anyone special around you. Dont stress over who you might or might not be or what box you fit in... because mate, you are you. And thats all that matters.

 

[yeahman21]

You view on being bisexual isnt really accurate. Im bi and I can have sex or relationships with men or women. Its pretty awesome actually lol.

 

[LouieAnderson]

Ok, my defintion of bi-sexual is someone who can have emotional attachments to both sexes, I'm only like that with one sex, and that is guys. She's the only woman i've had sex with, and the only woman I fantasize about, I seriously am regretting this because it's starting to fuck with my head and now i'm completely and utterly confused.

Tottally not true. I love tits and pussy, but women drive me crazy. I need a manly man, or a big tomboy of a woman. That's probably why i don't date. The only tomboys around here gay and the only gays are too feminine for me.