Confused..

[Basket07]

Hi guys, i'm confused cause i know im straight but at the same time i get turned on by some male porn stars. I don't think of any gay sexual contact when im turned on by them. I never think of gay sex when i masturbate and im just *ugh ugh ugh* i can't imagine being in a gay relationship. But i do enjoy watching some male features such as penis and ass but it's rare. I have and still like several girls, i always think about them (i like a girl in my school, but im sad she's dating a guy, i didn't care if she was smart or not, she was just damn fine). And i can tell you my mouth was open and waterin' when i saw the video clip Eric Prydtz Call on Me, the girls are like perfect and definately hot. But i still don't know what to identify myself cause i enjoy watching some male porn actors. Or is it maybe because i always aspire and dream of having the same physical features, to the point of being jealous =P I dont know i'm not homophobic but i just find gay sex disturbing and it gives me the -ugh ugh ugh- feeling

 

[dsh122]

You are straight, not visually impared. My point being, we are all able to recognize physically attractive people.

Porn stars are typically very good looking, well hung (in the case of male stars) people whose job is to provide sexual fantasy material for their viewers. Your finding it stimulating makes you perfectly normal. It is good (and healthy) that you are able to recognize and discuss that fact.

I am gay, but certainly capable of recognizing and appreciating an attractive woman. Like you, (and your thought about sex with guys) I think *ugh* when it comes to having sex with girls.

 

[ncdude19]

so are you sure you get the "ugh' feeling from gay sex or is that the feeling you feel pressured to feel because of social norms... ? Do whats right for you. So if you enjoy seeing gay porn stars - what ever if you don't. Do whats right for you. This is simple, explore your interests. If you no likey- end it. If you do like it then go for it.

 

[symbolicform]

you're gay. or you're going to be. the ugh feeling will pass (note the fact you are on this website in the first place). sorry to break it to you, sister. And I know all the closet cases and bi-sex enthusiasts will squeal in hysterical disagreement (like the queens they are), but take it from a gay guy who has occasionally fucked women even after coming out, you're probably a big mo. Of course, where would this forum be without every other post being about a 'straight' guy who 'still' likes women, but is 'really turned on' by men (so much so that he needs advice from a bunch of guys hanging out on a gay porn website...)?

 

[Caaake]

(^not gay ahhah)

So do you jack off to these male porn stars? Do you think about sex with them? How do they make you feel?

 

[Paladin]

You are straight, not visually impared. My point being, we are all able to recognize physically attractive people.

Porn stars are typically very good looking, well hung (in the case of male stars) people whose job is to provide sexual fantasy material for their viewers. Your finding it stimulating makes you perfectly normal. It is good (and healthy) that you are able to recognize and discuss that fact.

I am gay, but certainly capable of recognizing and appreciating an attractive woman. Like you, (and your thought about sex with guys) I think *ugh* when it comes to having sex with girls

Exactly. I think the same way about sex with women. He's not gay, just open and honest.

you're gay. or you're going to be. the ugh feeling will pass (note the fact you are on this website in the first place). sorry to break it to you, sister. And I know all the closet cases and bi-sex enthusiasts will squeal in hysterical disagreement (like the queens they are), but take it from a gay guy who has occasionally fucked women even after coming out, you're probably a big mo. Of course, where would this forum be without every other post being about a 'straight' guy who 'still' likes women, but is 'really turned on' by men (so much so that he needs advice from a bunch of guys hanging out on a gay porn website...)?

Get off his back - so to speak. Not everyone is gay for Chrissakes.

 

[Basket07]

Exactly. I think the same way about sex with women. He's not gay, just open and honest.





Get off his back - so to speak. Not everyone is gay for Chrissakes.

Thank you for the support, i'm really not gay. I just get confused because i can get horny off some male porn stars, but I DON'T get horny about gay sexual contact and all that >_< aah -puke face- can't think about it. (I dont even imagine gay sexual fantasies with those porn stars)

 

[MisterMajestic]

Thank you for the support, i'm really not gay. I just get confused because i can get horny off some male porn stars, but I DON'T get horny about gay sexual contact and all that >_< aah -puke face- can't think about it. (I dont even imagine gay sexual fantasies with those porn stars)

That's why we have to set LIMITS on watching Porn. Too much Porn-Flicks will cause you to have an erection just by looking at a bag of apples....

It's "Human" to get a hard-on watching a Porno couple Fuck...

If you know you don't have a sexual desire to be with men then how should Bisexual Men respond to your question?

We are attracted to men Sexually and we're with men intimately...Do you want us to tell you that your sexual arousal to Big Dick Male Porno Stars Fucking HOT Pussy is just a normal reaction? Well it is...100% Normal...

 

[boxerdudeuk]

you're gay. or you're going to be. the ugh feeling will pass (note the fact you are on this website in the first place). sorry to break it to you, sister. And I know all the closet cases and bi-sex enthusiasts will squeal in hysterical disagreement (like the queens they are), but take it from a gay guy who has occasionally fucked women even after coming out, you're probably a big mo. Of course, where would this forum be without every other post being about a 'straight' guy who 'still' likes women, but is 'really turned on' by men (so much so that he needs advice from a bunch of guys hanging out on a gay porn website...)?

jesus christ.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

first off, welcome to the site. i'm glad you decided to post and pose the question.

secondly i agree with MOST of the other folks who said basically just because you can appreciate an attractive man doesn't mean you are gay or even bi. if it turns you off then i seriously doubt you would be gay. don't agonize or speed a lot of time trying to label yourself. just appreciate the human form and IF you start having different feelings towards men, then re-examine things. But for now i don't think you have something to be "worried" about.

as for the below comment, clearly it's an opinion and is not any more right or wrong than any opinion. however, i frankly think what he said is unlikely. i'm tempted to just delete his comment because i don't think it was an appropriate comment to make to someone new or even someone not new but asking for help. however, i think it's possible to learn from it and make your own conclusion. i mean there are people here who will be helpful and people who wont be. the below is a post that is not likely to help you, in my opinion

you're gay. or you're going to be. the ugh feeling will pass (note the fact you are on this website in the first place). sorry to break it to you, sister. And I know all the closet cases and bi-sex enthusiasts will squeal in hysterical disagreement (like the queens they are), but take it from a gay guy who has occasionally fucked women even after coming out, you're probably a big mo. Of course, where would this forum be without every other post being about a 'straight' guy who 'still' likes women, but is 'really turned on' by men (so much so that he needs advice from a bunch of guys hanging out on a gay porn website...)?

 

[Basket07]

That's why we have to set LIMITS on watching Porn. Too much Porn-Flicks will cause you to have an erection just by looking at a bag of apples....

It's "Human" to get a hard-on watching a Porno couple Fuck...

If you know you don't have a sexual desire to be with men then how should Bisexual Men respond to your question?

We are attracted to men Sexually and we're with men intimately...Do you want us to tell you that your sexual arousal to Big Dick Male Porno Stars Fucking HOT Pussy is just a normal reaction? Well it is...100% Normal...

Hmm, didnt think of it like that. Thanks for the insight =)