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Hi. This is my first post here so here goes.

Recently i have been thinking about coming out, its been the only thing on my mind i really want to tell people. but there is a problem. I am not sure if i am gay. Everytime i think about coming out i think if i am really gay and i am just confusing myself.

The problem is i am really not sure the trouble comes because i havent been with a female i have only had sex with a male and quite enjoyed it although i have never been in a relationship with a guy. I have had a few relationships with females (Not in a long while) but none have made me feel any different. I also have never had sex with a female and often ponder what it feels like.

Another problem i have is i am from an area in south east london where homosexuality is greatly frowned upon and im not sure if alot of the people i keep close to me will accept me.

I need help to sort out my confusion.
 
Thanks. but im not sure about getting with a girl because i dont feel the same way.
I am quite attracted to some guys. But when me and my friends are around girls i dont really talk to them and i just mainly talk to my friends until the girl(s) talk to me then i feel is safe to talk to them. Is that attraction or it could be just that they are new people in my social circle. I usually act wierd like that wether they be male or female.
why is this so hard?
 
i dont feel any different around them unless i dont know them. If i have known them for a while i would talk to them like they are one of the guys.
 
We have thoughts like that before coming out. It isn't something that you just haven't tried, and you might like if you do. It's something that you WANT to do, a strong urge to have sex with a girl. Do you have that? If not, then you're not straight. Do you have it with a guy? If yes, you're gay.
 
Rent two porn videos. One lesbian, no men. One gay, no women. Which one yurns you on?
 
Why don't you just come out as confused. Jut say you have an attraction to the opposite sex and that your trying to figure out what you want
 
OK, if you have never been so motivated by your pecker to go angst over why the girls don't like you, why you can't ask them out - YOU ARE GAY.

It's really pretty simple once you take the self hatred out of it. You want to tell people you are gay, you like to fuck men, you've never been motivated enough to go fuck a woman, you didn't say about your confusion that you are attracted to twat - what you are ambivalent about is telling people. Because of the usual suspects.
 
For the past couple of day i have been doing nothing but think about this and i yesterday when i was out for a walk i saw a gay couple and i had a feeling that is what i want.
Thanks for helping me out aswell guys i feel a bit more complete with who i am and what i want.
Now i am preparing to tell the people i care about (Parents, Freinds e.t.c). About who i am.
 
Good for you, and good luck. You can do it.
 
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