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For a long time I thought that I was gay. However after my first experience with a guy. I am really not sure. Need some advice
 
First experiences rarely go well.

I have to ask... was your first experience with just anyone who agreed to have sex with you to get it out of the way, or was it someone you were attracted to? A lot of sex is in the mind, and not just a physical act. Sex is often a lot better if you have an attraction and chemistry, trust, affection, intimacy, familiarity... with the other person. Being nervous and self conscious plays a factor as well.
 
I agree with Borg. We need more info.
 
A lot of us can be so concerned that we are gay or bi that we look for excuses to prove we are not. Let me write it again. We have an orientation regardless of our sex acts or sexual partners; we have or orientation even if we never have sex.

Having sex with my ex-wife made me neither straight nor bi, despite any opinion of anyone else. Don't look outward for answers. You'll find them inward.
 
Thanks for the advice everyone. We met up in a hotel. Hit it off great conservation. Sucked each others dicks, and hand jobs. The blow job hurt.
 
make up your mind who attracts you more, men or women. maybe you just need a good lover who shows you different
ways of sex. but if you are into men (physical wise), maybe it is just a technical problem ;)
 
titanicbarron said:
Thanks for the advice everyone. We met up in a hotel. Hit it off great conservation. Sucked each others dicks, and hand jobs. The blow job hurt.
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It hurt when you blew him or it hurt when he blew you?

Sexuality is more about what goes on between your ears and less about what goes on between your legs. If your fantasies and interests are more toward the male body then that's probably more of an indication that you're attracted to men. No one should ever base a label on a first time or a NSA encounter- it's too complicated an issue to decide on any one encounter.

Something to keep in mind: no one is requiring you to say A or B. All of the above is an acceptable answer. Sometimes A, sometime B is also acceptable.
 
titanicbarron said:
Thanks for the advice everyone. We met up in a hotel. Hit it off great conservation. Sucked each others dicks, and hand jobs. The blow job hurt.
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maybe your foreskin is so tight.
Need years and years to loosen up the foreskin.
And the sucker should be more gentle.
 
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