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I have a good friend who could also be considered a "boyfriend". He says he is like a gigolo on Craigslist. Several dudes will give him money for sex acts. That may very well be true. But he says one dude came over to his house and gave twenty bucks for naked pics of my friend. In the digital age, I am wondering if someone would go to a strangers house for the pics. You could see plenty of pics for free online. I am thinking he wants me to be a little jealous. I do hang out with other friends and I hear he gets a little jealous if I dont pay enough attention to him. Any comments?
 
I will give him $ 100.00 for his naked pix. Pls tell him. Thanks
 
*arches an eyebrow*
I don't think it matters if it's true or not what matters is how absolutely scummy he sounds. Go find a nice boy who you can call a boyfriend without putting quotation marks around the word. Someone who doesn't need to be hosed off with antiseptic before you touch him. Really don't you deserve better?
 
Without more information I'd say several things are possible. He's trying to turn you on with a lie. He's showing you other people think he's hot. He wants something more with you and doesn't know how to ask.

All relationships need communication to survive. Get more information in order to make an informed decision if you'd like this to go somewhere. When playing with him, play safe.
 
Honestly, we have a close relationship but we argued and did not speak for a month. The first day we talked again he brought this stuff up. He knows I hung out with a several other friends (all straight) for the month we did not speak.
He is kinda lonely and may be nervous I am gonna continue to hang out with other friends. This means less time with him. I think its possible he wants me to believe if I dont hang out with him, he will hang out bisexual and gay dudes. He wants to keep the attention going. What do u think?
 
I dont want to put him down but he has not spent 25 bucks to keep his cell phone on so I wonder where all the money he makes goes.
 
I think it's important to make every relationship as healthy as possible. Since no one is perfect, I think we need to do the best we can with reasonably healthy people in order to maintain stability. It seems as if your boyfriend would rather play emotional games than ask for what he wants or behave positively so you'll want to spend time with him. If it's worth it to you talk to him about being upfront rather than manipulative.

While it might be true that you'd spend less time with friends while dating him, never let a bf come between you and healthy friendships. Don't be emotionally blackmailed. You'll need to let him go if he's stuck in this kind of immaturity or face being dragged down.
 
I believe communication is important but occasionally he is not so great with it. He sold his computer a few weeks ago so the next time he uses mine, I am gonna ask him to show me his ad he has on craigslist. I suspect it does not exist.
I am not sure what he wants. He says he loves me and has dreams about me.
 
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