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so a few months ago this guy moved into my town. we met at the club and we were kinda flirting so after about a week, we decided to meet again. (lets just call him jay). anyway, jay came with me to a friends bday party and afterwards we went back to his place... we only talk and i stayed for like 20 minutes. i told him i was a virgin and he told me he just got out of a 12 year relationship (hes 33 and im 18.) anyway, he said he hasnt had sex since then and doesnt plan on doin it anytime soon.
well we lost touch for about a week or 2 and then one day, i started talking to this guy on grindr (37). and later that nite i go to the movies where i run into jay with some guy. he said hi to be kinda polite and whatever. but i kinda felt disgusted.
later, i get a message from grindr guy and he said that he was the guy with jay... i didnt recognize him. so jay told me this guy was his ex he told me about... of a 12 year relationship. (lets call him eric.) anyway, jay and eric are still friends which is why they were at the theatre. jay knows we were talking but he doesnt know that over the past few days, we had some very intimate talks and im goin to see eric tomorrow nite, upstate.
but today, i find these nude pics of jay online and it changes how i feel about him yet i still kinda like him... and at the same time, i like eric too.
im so fuckin confused...
 
Honestly, I don't see this ending well for you.
 
Unless you're the kindof guy who likes mustering in that sortof drama, I'd suggest you run away as fast as you can.
 
These guys are way beyond what you seem to be needing right now. I'd look for someone without the baggage and drama.
 
Given the complexity of the situation and the spider web of involvement, maybe it might be better to slow things down and date someone in your age group who has a similar experience level... and fewer nude pics on the internet.


P.S. I'm going to pretend I can't do the math here:

Join Date: Aug 2005

pyrobitch said:
(hes 33 and im 18.)
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You certainly present the problem as though you are 18, but by my math that would have made you 14 when you joined.

Oh yeah. And a liar somewhere along the way.

Maybe it is this quality that LetscallhimJay didn't appreciate.
 
So young. So innocent. So inexperienced.

Run, don't walk, to the nearest exit.

This is not what you want your first sex and/or relationship to be.
 
karabulut- i do admit i was underage when i got this account but i swear im 18 now. i am very sorry and i hope u wont cancel my account because even though i shouldnt have joined at such a young age, i am glad i did because theres some really good people on here who gave me some good advice
rareboy- i havent lied to jay yet so dont talk like you know what my "qualities" are
everyone else- u r right... this wont end up well. im just gonna be friends with them... maybe makeout friends but thats it
 
No, not even makeout friends. It never stops at just making out.

Stay away from an ex-couple. You have feelings for both so that means you need to step back and find other guys. And there are many other guys to choose from. There's nothing special about these men.
 
Um, this is not a love triangle. You're crushing on a guy who didn't have sex with you and then ignored you for several weeks, and another guy who you have flirted with and chatted up on grindr. That's not a love triangle. That's an eighteen year old building relationships in his head, with men twice his age who don't seem to be showing the same level of interest.

You really should consider why you are finding yourself drawn to this type, or you're going to end up doing it again and getting hurt. Be careful with your heart, and find someone who is as interested in you as you are in him.
 
rareboy- i havent lied to jay yet so dont talk like you know what my "qualities" are
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I find it interesting the way you phrased it.

I say, go ahead and just be make-out friends with him.

How could it possible end badly?
 
just_believe18- actually i did make out with eric but it did stop. hes a really sweet guy and hes attracted to me but i feel much better being friends with him... i mean i admit that i was kinda crushing on them at first but i'm just trying to be a good friend for both of them now. jay really needs it. and eric is just too good of a guy to see as anything else.
killjoke- i used the term love triangle very loosely. i was in no way saying im in love with either of them. i only used that term because crush triangle sounds wierd and i havent heard it used before. and the reason he didnt have sex with me is because i told him im a virgin and im stayin one till im ready. and as far the other one, i did chat with him on grindr but its not like i havent met him... i've slept over with him twice in the past week. and as for building relationships, none of us want a relationship. and they're the ones attracted to me. i do appreciate the advice but the situation isnt as unfortunate as i may have made it sound.
rareboy- i phrased it that way because i HAVEN'T lied to him yet so if there was any problem, that wasn't it. because, i know that somewhere down the road, everyone lies. and please dont be a smart ass, i only come here for advice. and btw, hes the one that wants to make out with me but at the moment, im making the decision not to because he needs someone who wants more from him than just physicality.
 
pyrobitch said:
...i phrased it that way because i HAVEN'T lied to him yet so if there was any problem, that wasn't it. because, i know that somewhere down the road, everyone lies...
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Why do you think that people inevitably lie?
 
pyrobitch said:
i do appreciate the advice but the situation isnt as unfortunate as i may have made it sound.
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Glad to hear that, Bud. We can only base opinions and advice on the information given, and sometimes the person's word choices can make a situation seem more dramatic and dire than it is. This latest post makes you seem like you have your wits about you more than you originally portrayed. :)

:kiss:
 
TX-Beau- inevatibly being the key word
killjoke- well i do admit i was thinking the worst at the beginning, that it would be some big dramatic thing. so i can see how u saw it too. as for having my wits about me, thanx :)
 
I think the Op needs to run as fast as he can and find someone else. This guy the OP is interested in is clearly not over his ex. Move on!
 
well since jay didnt even know till yesterday, i highly doubt they were conspiring against someone they just met
 
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