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Crush on teacher... HELP!

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Here's the story...

There is this teacher of mine whom I have a HUGE crush on. It started out with me hating him because I thought he was an asshole, but the more I learn about him and the more time I spend in his class I have found myself crushing on him. He has dark blond, gel-spiked hair.. BEAUTIFUL blue eyes.. a handsome face thats a little rough around the edges.. nice body. He's smart, and just a great guy when he isn't being an asshole.

Here's the problem...

1) Teacher and student relationship.... HAHAHA. Yeah.. okay.
2)A wife.. and 2 kids *both under the age of 2* So I think its safe to say he's straight
3)We're not that close.
4) He's buddies with some ASSHOLES that go to my school

He constantly tried to be all buddy buddy with me.. but Im always being cold, silent, and try to avoid him. I feel like this is the only way for me to not have an even bigger crush on him.

What do I do? LOL. Do I wait for it to pass? Is there something I can do to help me get over him!?
 
Remind yourself why you thought he was an asshole... OBVIOUSLY you shouldn't do anything about it. The only attraction you should have towards him is in the aspect that you respect him as an educational instructor... (that is, if you think he's a good teacher)
 
What would having sex with him accomplish?
 
Well, as a high school teacher, I would suggest you try to stop thinking about him. I highly doubt anything will ever happen, other than you might possibly really embarass yourself. Maybe things would be ok if you told him and he would just be flattered.

I assume that school is almost out for you, so you will go off to summer vacation and think about something or someone else. I also assume that you will have a new schedule, so you won't see him any more in your class. If you do have another class with him, then have your schedule changed.

If he is smart, even if he is attracted to you, he would never make a move or accept an advance from you, due to the severe consquences that could result if it were ever revealed that he had an inapporpriate relationship with a student. You are probably a great guy, but he has too much to lose if something were to start.

Good luck to you. It's tough being in that situation. I have been there myself. Unrequited love SUCKS!
 
Obviously, the decent thing for you to do is to respect his marriage and his relationship with his children. Being sexually attracted to someone hardly counts as a license to to undermine a family. Perhaps he finds you attractive. But this is no reason at all for you to try to have a relationship with him. Think of it the other way around. Would you want someone hitting on your parents, be it your mother or your father?
 
You are describing the kind of immature fantasy relationship that thousand of gay guys have had. There will be sooooo many who read this and think of the hot teacher they had when they were in school that they had the same type of love/hate feelings about.

I think that it is often a process of working through transferrence issues about authority, pack animal hierarchies, self image and just plain lust.

Try to just be pleasant. Seriously. You might find that he's a pretty good friend. Just stop thinking about him with his dick in your mouth.
 
I'm assuming that the class is almost over. In which case, ride it out. Then cut contact with him. Yes, the fantasy of convincing the hot, straight, asshole teacher to pound you senseless on his desk is an exciting one. It's also an imaginary one - one that has all the danger without any of the repercussions.

Lex
 
I think I should have mentioned before THAT I DO NOT want a relationship with this guy of ANY kind.

I just thought I would make that clear since I forgot to, and since everyone is like "you slut.. dont break up a marriage". I have NO intentions of getting it on with this guy and tell him. I simply wanted to know how anybody here got over a similar situation.

Thanks for the advice, words, etc.
 
try to not get involved, be nice but don't let yourself get involved. I was in a relationship with one of my professors and trust me if you were in a relationship with your professor he will have all the power. Stay away and squash this crush we all have to do it sometime. I'm telling you this cause I don't want to see you hurt
 
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