I have tried on a couple occasion to try swallowing my own cum, but no matter how much I try. I also have regrets at the last moment, and spit. I can never quite get used to the taste. Do you all have any advice? I tried edging a load out, so I don't lose my arousal. but still can't manage.
Do you all have any other kinky ways you eat your own cum?
It's such a common problem that it has its own name: "post-nut clarity": when you're horny and building up to your orgasm you want to eat your cum. You have a mental image of yourself as a cum-eater and it's an exciting thought. Then you shoot your load, and all of a sudden it doesn't seem like such a hot idea.
It's all related to two hormones that influence your feelings during and after the act.
- Dopamine creates desire, motivation, and novelty, and reduces inhibition.
- Prolactin increases, after cumming, and creates the sense of satisfaction and a feeling of being done, returns your self-awareness, and resets your normal state of preferences.
You don't eat your cum after shooting your load, for the same reason as you don't put it on your breakfast, the same reason as there are no bottles of cum-flavoured sauce or salad dressing in supermarkets. It's because, in your state of normal awareness and objective reasoning, it's not a particularly appealing taste. What makes it appealing is the excitement during arousal, when your dopamine level is high. When you're sucking another man's cock, your dopamine level is high but you don't lose that when he cums if you don't cum, so it's exciting to taste it and swallow.
I would ask you one question, as I have often asked myself: what do you regret about not eating your own cum? After you shoot your load, and you're faced with a little puddle of goop that you know doesn't taste particularly great, eating it seems gross, so you clean it up, get rid of it, then the regret sets in.
That's because dopamine creates a predicted outcome of something rewarding, and prolactin doesn't erase the memory. You remember that as a missed opportunity. When your dopamine level drops sharply after orgasm, you're left with a stronger "what-if" signal.
So, what do you do? One option is to accept it. There's no lingering desire or need that goes unmet. The regret, the "what-if" doesn't stay with you; unless you're going about your day thinking "damn, if only I'd eaten my cum last night" - if you are, then maybe find a cock to suck that isn't yours, and get that cum into you without cumming yourself.
Otherwise, eat your cum, and here are ways and I've done and enjoyed:
- Legs over your head, shooting straight into your mouth. Easier said than done at my age; I did this a lot when I was younger.
- Interrupt / edge your load out, so you cum then the orgasm happens after - you said you can't manage, but you need willpower, get it in your hand and into your mouth, and swallow, before you think about it.
- Shoot your load onto your stomach or chest, resist the urge to clean up, and leave it there while you relax and your horniness returns. Then wipe it all up and eat it.
Eating your cum takes willpower and commitment. You can do it, with practice.
