cure for pedophitis

[Corny]

did "he" realize that this is a problem that he needs to get rid of? he needs to take some counseling/therapy etc. there are many organizations here who help people with those problems, where you are treated as a normal human being etc pp - unfortunately i don't know anything like that in the US, but I am sure some other members will be able to help you.

 

[KaraBulut]

How old is your friend and how long has he had this interest in younger people?

 

[BenF]

You (or your friend) should revise their etymology - paedophitis is the inflammation of the child.

What you (or your friend) describes is called paedophillia.

You (or your friend) should seek psychiatric assistance on an urgent basis.

Regards.

Ben

 

[Corny]

^ this is not a a good "phase" to have. seek counseling.

 

[KaraBulut]

lol "hes" 19

and whatever i guess its probably just a phase

At 19, it would not be unusual for someone to have fantasies about someone who is a couple of years younger than they are.

When the fantasies start getting younger than that, it is worrisome. Unfortunately, these things are not phases, they are lifetime patterns.

Counseling is the safest option. Better to deal with the issue ASAP. Pedophiles don't fare well in prison.

 

[KaraBulut]

Recently he went through an asian phase and maybe their little penises brought on this new one

Let's clear up what pedophilia is. We often use "pedophile" when the issue is statutory rape. Pedophilia is being aroused by children. Your friend is aroused by younger adolescents, not children. In most states, any sexual activity that your friend has with people under 16 (age varies by state) will land him in jail.

Any images that he has of people under 18 in sexual situations will land him in jail. Amount does not matter- even possession of one image is against the law.

It's serious stuff.

There is a big overlap between guys who like teenage guys and guys who like Asian men- mostly because Asian met tend to have lighter beards, less body hair and look younger.

The thing that concerns all of us is that your friend has attractions to guys that are significantly younger than he is. This is not something to be dismissed. It is the kind of thing that can provide you residence in a nice jail cell.

 

[BenF]

Call me suspicious, but I think that Wingatevan is talking about himself.

It would be even more suspicious of me to suggest that he is using this "cry for help" as calling-out to other like-minded folk for imagery to tickle his highly illegal fancy.

Just saying....

 

[3nipples]

its not like my friend has 10gb of child porn on his computer
when my friend was like 14 he was obsessed with older guys and that eventually faded

recently he went through an asian phase and maybe their little penises brought on this new one

I think it's more likely the other way around. Your friend needs to realize that this is very wrong and that he should seek help before it gets out of hand.

 

[Guy89]

I think, judging from your posts, you don't realize how serious of a situation this is. Most "phases" usually end up just being the discovery of something. Like how some people think being gay is a "phase". Please, just please, get help. I'm sure you can use google to see if there's anything near you that helps people with these problems. Or just do some online research on how to deal with it. Just please try to do something and not put it off as a "phase". I've seen firsthand how serious this can end up being and the enormous damage this can cause, so please try to get some help. For your sake, and potentially, for the sake of someone else.