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I guess I'm bi-curious. I've wanted to experiment with other guys in a completely discrete manner and I was wondering what the best (and safest) way to do that would be. Have any other bi-curious people done the same? How did you do it? I know nothing is 100% safe and there is always the risk of someone blabbing but how have others gone about experimenting around while still staying on the down-low? I'm 25 and really only looking for people around my age. Thanks for any help :)
 
I'm thinking using a gay app like Grindr would help. Just explain your situation and I'm sure you'll come across someone to help you.
 
Isn't Grindr more for "sex me now"? I think Adam4Adam may be a better fit. Chat with a few guys, see their pics, and hopefully find a good discrete match. I've never used Grindr, so I could be mistaken, only going by what I've read.

Welcome to JUB, btw. :wave:
 
adam4adam is ok, so is manhunt . net.

Post what you're looking for. Don't post a face pic, and exchange pics through an email account you have just for your bi thing. If they come off as pushy or rude be done with them. Talk with them on the phone first, then if things go well meet in public.
 
I have had very good luck with adult bookstores. Fortunately the few I have frequented are in residential suburban neighborhoods. Hang out in a booth with the door unlocked and see who opens it. If you don't like them just say no thanks and pull your door shut. I prefer to hook up with other guys who are wearing wedding bands. They seem less promiscuous in my mind wheather true or not. It gives peace of mind. I have been doing this for 30 years and have never caught anything ever. I have had myself tested just to be sure, but always test negative. If you are in one of these places and run into a familiar face he is there for the same reason you are.
 
ClevelandTodd said:
Isn't Grindr more for "sex me now"? I think Adam4Adam may be a better fit. Chat with a few guys, see their pics, and hopefully find a good discrete match. I've never used Grindr, so I could be mistaken, only going by what I've read.

Welcome to JUB, btw. :wave:
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I respectfully disagree. As a gay male. I have hooked up with 4 or 5 bi guys from grindr. Many people make profiles that say "bi" or "curious" etc. It's not hard to find and I'm sure he will have luck. The don't exchange face pics thing to me is ridiculous. I won't meet w/o seeing a face. If you are that paranoid it's going to be waaaaaaaaaaay harder to meet someone. I get being discrete but people act like you are going to post their pic somewhere. It's just so I can see who I am talking to :grrr:
 
In a similar position. As recommended ABS, Bathhouse, nude swimming holes and nude beaches. All of these things make you feel more comfortable.
 
Come out as bisexual, and go to a gay/LGBT bar or dance club, and meet men in person, and communicate with them and eventually you will meet the right guy this way. Good luck.
 
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