Curious to know..

[racer2438]

that would depend on your thoughts only. Only you can decide if you want to be a man whore, have a few , have alittle or have a select few, or hvae just a couple, or have just one.

It is what you want out out of your self.


I met my bf at 18. I had played a couple of circle jerks with school buddies but that was it.

My bf was my 1st man sex I ever had, I loved it so much that I never left.

We have been to gether for 24-1/2yrs now. He is the only guy that I have had real man sex with.

There will be no other man for me.

So again it depnds on how you want to run your life..

 

[KaraBulut]

Welcome to JUB.

Guys are guys. Doesn't matter whether they are gay or straight.

There are some guys looking for love.

There are some guys looking to get laid.

There are some guys looking for both.

Unfortunately, there's no secret way to ferret out which ones are which. You just have to take a risk sometimes and find out.

 

[Eagle653]

In my experience, most (but not all) gay men have more sexual experiences and partners than their straight counterparts. Part of that is because it's so easy to get, for the most part. And, part of it is that many men can separate out, in their minds, sex from love.

Personally, I found that both were important. In "sowing my wild oats" I never felt like I used or was used. And, then someone very, very special came along and changed my live forever and I fell in love with him. I've wondered if, when I met him, I was a virgin when it came to male sex and relationships, whether I would have appreciated who he was. I would hope I'd be like racer above and say yes. But, I don't know. What I do know is that I'd had enough experience to know quality from not, and knew a keeper when I found him.

Each approaches this their own way. Think this through and find a way that's comfortable with your personality, and you'll always be able to hold your head high.

Good luck.

 

[Homoerectus]

I would suggest that you play the field until you determine for what or who you are looking. Meet lots of guys of very different types. Have sex. That doesn't mean you have to be a slut and sleep with 25, 50 or 100 men but have fun while you are young. Don't over do it to the point where word gets around you are an easy fuck. You will determine what kind of man you are seeking. Once that is settled and you have some experience, then start looking for your lifetime partner. You are only young once in this life. ALWYAS PLAY SAFE!

 

[slickery]

Lots of interesting posts, but do what you want.

Me, I don't want, and never have wanted some random penis in or around me so I'm somewhat of a prude.

You can get out there and meet people, but it doesn't mean you have to have sex with everyone and anyone at that.

Just do what you feel comfortable with. Don't let anyone pressure you into anything. And if someone suggests ever NOT using a condom because it feels "better," run away! Well slap them first, slam a door, then run.

 

[Lube]

Trust your own judgment. You're probably a better judge of character than you realize.

Having sex before settling down is not "slutty". There is nothing to be afraid of. Sex is natural. Just do it at the rate--and with whom--you are comfortable.

 

[G-Lexington]

It doesn't matter what most gay men do. I only matters what YOU do. And what YOU want to do.

If you want to have sex tonight, you almost certainly can. If you want to have sex with somebody different tomorrow night, you almost certainly can. If you'd rather get into a relationship first, you can definitely go that route, too.

Lex