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I don't know whether I'm either Bi, Curious or straight... I think some guys are sexy and i like their asses but I'm not really interested in dick or being fucked... I wanna know what the best solution would be to find out if I really like boys (and dont state the obvious like "have sex". Im really sexually frustrated at the minute and yes im a virgin...
 
Well even though you dont want to be told, and you are tell us not to tell you what you dont want to hear.

dude- thats the only way your going to find out.

It would be impossible to find out about something if one does not try it.

It's like any other thing, food items if you dont try something how are you ever going to know if you will like it. Once tried then you make the choice if you did or did not like or if you need to try a bit more to really make sure what you though was right.


If you dont want to hear "have sex"
well then dont pose the question in that manner.

I did not like sushi and said never will i eat it. I tried it once to see, a second to make sure and a 3rd because I found I did like it.

If you have not had sex yet, according to you are a virgin, then how do you know what you do /dont like if in fact you have not tried something before.

I was never into guy's I was with girls all the time in my teen years.

I tried gay sex one time and i was hooked and been with my b/f for 24yrs now, I never went back to girls.
 
theres one boy i like but hes both a giver and a taker...right now im only comforable with being top... how do you take the step from giver to taker
 
^ " only comfortable being a top" you say your bi-sexual, you may just be curious and then you may go bi-sexual.

you dont make sence, You just got done saying you a Virgin.

Last I heard a Virgin has not been a top/bottom--> anything.

If you want to try being a bottom then you need to practice on your own with small Dildo's, fingers, cucumber's. small things and PLENTY of lube.

Start small and just get your hole loose. Dont go str8t to bottoming all at once. It will then hurt like hell and you wont like it and you wont do it again.


And only bottom when YOU feel you are ready not when someone say's you are.

I never bottomed and my b/f took his time and was very gentle. we try tried for about 2/3weeks before I was comfortable and then we went very slow.

Now I love my ass fuck good and hard. He can make me cum just by how he fucks me and when he fingers my prostate and I dont have to touch my cock. It is a amazing feeling and I love it.

But if someone goes to hard and fast when you are not ready it will hurt.

So when and if you do try it make sure you are in control of the speed and depth and use PLENTY of lube.

But 1st try the Dildo's and cucumber. They sell anal trainer kits and have like 3/4 sizes to practice on you can order on line if you dont want to go and buy in a store. Just make sure you are clean.

For clean tips use the search box and there are many post on this subject.

But again you said your a virgin , yet you only comfortable being a top.

does not make sence.....
 
sorry yeah...im just saying I would only be comfortable with being on top with a boy and not bottom
 
In my experience there are far more bottoms than tops in the gay community.

You'll have no trouble finding one, if you try.

And I agree you won't know whether you like men in addition to/instead of women unless you take the plunge.

If you do: condoms, condoms, condoms.
 
I think you should just do what comes naturally to you and forgot about labels for now. I am in a similar situation except my attraction to guys is opposite and is more focused on cock. Maybe some of the confusion may be if you like the "masculine" role in a relationship or the more aggressive role like you would be w/ women but, you want to do this w/ guys and that role usually isn't associated or portrayed with being gay/bi. Usually we only see the effeminate or passive gay guy portrayed in the media and you don't identify with that so, that might be a part of your confusion.
 
kingkhan said:
I think you should just do what comes naturally to you and forgot about labels for now. I am in a similar situation except my attraction to guys is opposite and is more focused on cock. Maybe some of the confusion may be if you like the "masculine" role in a relationship or the more aggressive role like you would be w/ women but, you want to do this w/ guys and that role usually isn't associated or portrayed with being gay/bi. Usually we only see the effeminate or passive gay guy portrayed in the media and you don't identify with that so, that might be a part of your confusion.
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Yep spot on. I kinda like to be the "masculine" one I guess lol and yeah it isn't associated with bis/gays but I'm just scared It would be weird and eventually being on top all the time is going to annoy my partner. He says hes alright with being on bottom all the time but I don't believe him...
 
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