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Dating, Is he really interested in me

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So I went on a date with a guy I meet through one of my friends. I am wondering if he is really interested in me.

It is confusing because while on the date he acted like he was really into me. We went out on Friday night. We have text a little since then, but I have not really talked to him. Is this normal for someone to do that. We are supposed to go out this weekend. He said in one of the text on Monday that he was looking forward to this weekend. I have text him first all this week, he responds but thats it. So today Wednesday, I decided not to text him and see if he would text me but have not heard a thing. I was thinking about calling him, any suggestions
 
call him and ask how his day was. Make conversation, find out more about him so you guys will be more acquainted and more open to talk on your next date.

You can't really tell if someone is into to you or not until the 3-4 dates. I mean the more dates you have, the obvious the answer to your question right?
 
don't call him, i'm in ur same spot and I think he's not interesting

although wait, but don't call him If he's into u he will do it imo
 
Okay so I took the advice and called him tonight, he answered on the first ring. We talked for a while and we started making our plans for the weekend. Thanks for the advice, will let you know what happens this weekend
 
Jesus wept.

When I was young, it was perfectly possible to go an entire day without some needy person texting me every whipstitch to reassure themselves that they were uppermost in my thoughts.

Honest to God. Hopefully you get some sense of how neurotic one can become by not just accepting something at face value.

Good for your date. I'm glad he didn't play the needy game. I'm glad that you called. Wasn't it nicer to hear his voice than to read some mindless piece of txtspk?

And hopefully you've realized that you don't have to panic and rush to a bunch of avatars to get analysis because he hasn't texted you back immediately.
 
Don't play games about calling. Don't depend on texts for communication and reassurance.

If you've made plans for a follow-up date in the future, then set a date/time that one of you will call the other to confirm. And then keep your word about calling.
 
Well this weekend went really good. I learned a lot of things about him. Some were good some were not. We went out on Saturday and Sunday night. I met some of his friends and they were cool and fun to hang out with.

I have left out some details though. We live about 80 miles from each other. So not sure how this is going to work. I live in a small town and trying to relocate(not because of him) but in the mean time it is going to be hard. Being gay and living in a small town sucks. I am trying to transfer with my company. This weekend his roommate was out of town so there were no issues. I am worried about the future. I do have relatives and friends I can stay with though. The other thing is that his roommate is his ex. We talked about that this weekend, because I am not really cool with it but he reassured me that he would not be with him again, because he had cheated on him twice. So that made me feel better. My thoughts are I am just going to roll with the flow, because I am interested but I will be cautious as well.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated
 
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