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Dating Man And Woman Simultaneously

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horny4all

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I have identified as a gay man for the last 20 years or so. In the last couple of years I have found or acknowledged that I am also sexually attracted to women.I do not find them as attractive as men when clothed,but when naked I find them more attractive than men. Does this sound familiar to anyone?

I have had many relationships with guys,a few mmf threesomes (two ok,one brilliant). I have been on dates with women,but never had any intimacy with them (only in the mmf 3somes). Last week I had a non-intimate date with a man and one with a woman where we kissed. So this week I have 2nd dates with both of them. One is at the man's house (so it may get intimate) and the other one the woman is having a meal in a restaurant in the city where I live. The man thinks I am gay,the woman that I am hetero. I really want to find out this week if I have a preference for one gender or the other,so I know in which direction I should be putting my dating efforts into. Has anyone else been in a similar situation and what happened?
 
In my opinion, if it's more than a one-night stand, or more than a one-time sex hookup, you should let them both know what's going on. There are people who would be comfortable with that.
 
I identify as bisexual, besides a drunken one night fling in college 6 years ago (swapped bjs and hjs) I have never been with a man intimately. I am attracted to both sexes clothed and naked, but I find myself fantasizing about men way more often and I'm pretty sure its because I've been denying myself the pleasure (traditional upbringing--although I'm pretty liberal).

I've dated women and enjoy having sex with women, but I have trouble with keeping a relationship going. The weird thing for me is that I am always finding myself attracted to couples, but I'm not trying to break them apart--I'm attracted to them as a couple.

I've been thinking about trying to be intimate with a man lately. I am having trouble finding someone though, if I can't connect with a person on a mental level, I can't see myself connecting physically with them. If I had the opportunity to be in a mmf relationship I would want to try it out. So you've been in 3 horny4all? one brilliant and two ok, eh? Can you elaborate on how you met them and why they didn't last?

Personally I am attracted to different people for different reasons, looking past gender. A soul can be beautiful regardless of the body. I kind of think people out there are against polyamory, or are threatened by it to some extent.

I suggest to just be honest with them and tell them you're bi, but reaffirm what it is about them you find attractive. Why start a relationship pretending to be just staight or just gay? Also, where do you live horny4all? I'm in southern California--I don't know any other bi people.
 
I live in The Netherlands,where people seem to be very relaxed about sex and different sorts of relationships and sexualities.
 
I would NEVER date a bisexual. Not only would u worry they're hooking up with men but with women also.
 
horny4all said:
I have identified as a gay man for the last 20 years or so. In the last couple of years I have found or acknowledged that I am also sexually attracted to women.I do not find them as attractive as men when clothed,but when naked I find them more attractive than men. Does this sound familiar to anyone?

I have had many relationships with guys,a few mmf threesomes (two ok,one brilliant). I have been on dates with women,but never had any intimacy with them (only in the mmf 3somes). Last week I had a non-intimate date with a man and one with a woman where we kissed. So this week I have 2nd dates with both of them. One is at the man's house (so it may get intimate) and the other one the woman is having a meal in a restaurant in the city where I live. The man thinks I am gay,the woman that I am hetero. I really want to find out this week if I have a preference for one gender or the other,so I know in which direction I should be putting my dating efforts into. Has anyone else been in a similar situation and what happened?
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What happened finally??
 
Never. However, I have dated guys who were also dating women. In all instances, the guy "said" he preferred dating me, but kept it going with the girl mainly for appearance reasons (classic DL syndrome).
 
Up until February of 2013 I was dating a guy and a girl. The guy won out so I said bye to the girl.
 
First I had sex with the guy - it was ok, but nothing special. two days later I had sex with the woman - first in the evening - it felt very good but I came quite quickly. then in the morning - that felt so very good, and it was a very good long fuck session. a week later i saw her again and fucked her both evening and morning. so me and the woman are going to continue to see each other and see how things develop - so I am keeping off guys,at least temporarily.
 
Dated guys an women when I was younger. Loved pussy, but really didn't enjoy a relationship with a woman nearly as much as with a man. If I knew a girl into sport fucking, I would do it, probably.
 
- I am a newbie and perusing the old posts bit by bit, and I found this thread interesting. Right after my divorce, I started dating a closeted/curious married bisexual top, and I was having sex with two women as well. (I was really out of hand for a little bit and have stopped!) I was bottoming bareback in the afternoon inside a porn booth with him, and would have sex with one of the women that night. I preferred to date women after that unwise escapade, and it was a miracle with dodging a bullet, the woman I was beginning to seriously date never discovered what I was doing in coping! (I got tested so I am clean!) The closeted bicurious family guy became a drama queen for some reason...it turned me off.
 
I date and fuck women but I also suck dick. The females absolutely do not know. The man who is my regular knows that I date women and has no problem with it. I've never been in a position where the female knows.
 
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