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dating with older male as a virgin

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hey guys, so i'm 22 and into older men, since the gay community is pretty small at my country i made a profile at silverdaddies / bearwww and started looking. i came in contact with a hot couple who are looking for sex partners around the world and they are visiting my country next month. we've traded pictures and i really like what i see, they seem to be exactly my type of men and we kinda look forward to meeting up.
problem is i'm a virgin and never been with a man before in my life.
i'm really afraid i won't know how to behave with them. what if i won't be clean enough for sex, what if i cum too soon?
can i get some suggestions, whether is it a good idea to even date with 2 men for my first time, or how to prepare for first time sex?
i practice prostate milking so things going up my butt it not a problem, but i'm hesitant since it's all new to me. any advice would be appreciated!
 
You live in a country with plenty of gay men. Losing your virginity to sex tourists doesn't seem like your best option.
 
KaraBulut said:
You live in a country with plenty of gay men. Losing your virginity to sex tourists doesn't seem like your best option.
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I just don't think this would be a good idea. Especially with this being your first sexual experience. Just my opinion.;)
 
Maybe I'm quite old fashioned, but I really think your first time should be something special, with someone you like/love. I was a virgin when I met my partner (he's 54, I'm 25), and the first time we did it, well, I did prepare, got an enema, lube and rubbers, everything went pretty well. I thought I would cum really fast, because that's the way it usually happens while I watch porn, but I didn't, I lasted quite long, but I guess because he was so damn lovin' and there were plenty of foreplay.
 
Alexander91 said:
Maybe I'm quite old fashioned, but I really think your first time should be something special, with someone you like/love. I was a virgin when I met my partner (he's 54, I'm 25), and the first time we did it, well, I did prepare, got an enema, lube and rubbers, everything went pretty well. I thought I would cum really fast, because that's the way it usually happens while I watch porn, but I didn't, I lasted quite long, but I guess because he was so damn lovin' and there were plenty of foreplay.
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Damn Sounds Freaking Hot to me. Ur Partner was a Lucky Guy....
 
Alexander91 said:
Maybe I'm quite old fashioned, but I really think your first time should be something special, with someone you like/love. I was a virgin when I met my partner (he's 54, I'm 25), and the first time we did it, well, I did prepare, got an enema, lube and rubbers, everything went pretty well. I thought I would cum really fast, because that's the way it usually happens while I watch porn, but I didn't, I lasted quite long, but I guess because he was so damn lovin' and there were plenty of foreplay.
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While your experience sounds great, I completely disagree with your advice.

There is nothing special or sacred about the first time, even though it's a huge psychological and often emotional moment. Of course there are fairy tale stories, but for most guys the first time is awkward and nerve-wracking, because let's be honest - nobody is born with this skillset, we all learn it through experience.

I agree though, sex tourists aren't the best idea. If for no other reason than because people like that tend to view sex in pretty pragmatic terms, and they are rarely interested in your inexperience. That said, I am generalizing - they could be the sweetest guys in the world. But still, while I'm a huge promoter of being slutty, I think your first time should be with someone who makes you feel comfortable and who you have some measure of trust for.

Either way, I wouldn't worry about being clean. If you are 22 and are attractive enough that sex tourists want to bang you, you're going to be clean enough even with just a shower.
 
There is no right or wrong with regards to the first time. Do what you want to do (hey, everyone's different), but know going in the inherent risk/reward with the scenario you're planning out.
 
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