David

[CasualGuy]

First, I'd just like to say; I'm Alex. I am 19 years of age and currently studying. I am 5.5" tall and weigh around 135 pounds. I'm athletic, active and a fun person.

And... I have a sort of crush on this guy, David. To clarify, I consider myself a bi-sexual guy, who does enjoy women as much as I enjoy men (even though I've never been with a man). My preference is women when I'm out clubbing or just walking down the street, however, I do check men out too. The fact is, that I love both genders, I don't really care if they're female or male; as long as I am loved back.

I have had a few girlfriends, and yes, I do enjoy sex with females. It's awesome. Can't really say anything else. But ever since this semester started, I have this cute, sweet and innocent guy in my class, named David. David seems cuddly, he's just too darn cute. I love just taking a minute to stare myself deep into his eyes; they're bright-green with a touch of yellow. He seems to be a little curious himself, but I'm not sure. Once he just came up and started hugging me - I enjoyed every second of it; the smell of his clothes and.. damn I'm dreaming.

Anyway, you guys get the point. I have eyes for him, and he's probably the only guy I've ever had eyes for. My problem is that I'm afraid he'll reject me, or just the others finding out that I'm bi-sexual - not straight - as they think I am.

Any advice?

 

[texan_slant]

If you feel like you have a connection with him, as a friend, boyfriend, or whatever - when the time is right - tell him you're bi.

Take it slow, and don't necessarily tell him that you have feelings for him yet; take it as a friendship with no stress and expectations.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi, or coming out. You might gain his trust that way, and then the ball will not only be in your court, but also in his.

Assume that he's straight unless he otherwise says so; don't be inadverdantly misled by straight guys who just happen to be really sweet.

 

[seven2go]

It's pretty hard to improve on the "Would you like to meet for coffee (or whatever) with me sometime?" line.
It's a very innocuous line and only hints at further interest.......

 

[CGHJ]

Awwww, this is like the sweetest OP ever I would say if he just came up and hugged you at one point that's a least a good way to start. Don't be afraid to do the same to him then, eh?Good luck man!

 

[CasualGuy]

@texan_slant:
It's just that he's extremely sweet, not like anyone else; can't really explain it. He's just an angel in my eyes. :c

@seven2go:
Maybe it is harmless; but again it's that "coming out"-thing.

@CGHJ:
Aww, thank you. We'll see what happens.

@summerboy24:
That's what I've been doing for the past two months; thank you. Sexuality is a pretty hard subject to bring up you know. I do assume he's straight though.

 

[CasualGuy]

Today we talked - in the shower. Talking about class and... sex. Both standing in the shower just talking, but then suddenly he sorta just bumped into me. I was confused at first, but figured he had just slipped or something. He apologized and we continued talking while showering. The part that confused me even more than he bumping into me, was that when I asked; silly as I am - if he had some girl he liked... he just looked at me and changed the subject immediately.

David is a mystery. I love just being his friend. Just to have him in my presence is a privilege. I feel all warm and fuzzy inside when talking to him. He is the perfect man.

 

[blackbeltninja]

Well, if you're feeling brave... bring it up again. Mention he changed the subject when you asked earlier, and tell him you wondered why.

Then immediately ask him again, but this time say "is there a girl or guy you like" stressing that the idea doesn't worry you at all if he prefers guys.

Perhaps that will get things started and he will tell you his story (if there is one) and then perhaps you can reciprocate?

Good luck either way!

-d-

 

[anchihiro]

Where did he 'bump' you?


I guess you should spend more time with him, do things where it's just you and him. I hope it works out for you as he seems to make you feel good. As an incentive it wouldn't harm you to get touchy feely with him. This would create a mood suggesting it's ok to touch each other, eventually it could lead somewhere.