Dealing with roommates

[Stitch627]

I live in a shared apartment with 2 roommates, both straight.
I've been living with one of the guys for one year, and the second guy has just arrived. It's university housing, so I don't happen to choose them.

Then about me, I am probably gay, even if I cannot say "I'm gay" but I already kinda came out to 3 of my friends and I'm willing to experiment with guys more. Consequently it's likely I'll bring guys back to my place. And I don't know what to do... I mean, should I tell my roommates "hey if you face a guy you don't know for breakfast it's normal, we slept together" or just say nothing? If it was for a girlfriend I wouldn't even ask the question...

There was this guy, who came over to my place a couple of times last July, and I know that my roommate was there (the one I've been living with for a year). I don't know if he heard or noticed something though. But if he did, he's never mentioned it.

 

[TrailRider86]

Unless your doing something in front of your roommates that would make them uncomfortable then you really don't owe them an explanation. Like you said if it was a girl you wouldn't ask. Just be respectful of them and im sure they will be respectful of you back.

 

[racer2438]

^^^ what he said, dont go doing things in the open, have your privacy and respect theres. If they have not figured it out yet they will.

I dont think you owe any explanations to them as you said your self. If they ask you either tell if you want or just say that private info and your what your privacy respected just like you will repect theres.

 

[Stitch627]

yeah no I'm not gonna make out in the kitchen
at most they could see us kissing goodbye or leaving the bathroom only with a towel

But I agree with what you both said, this sounds reasonable, I think I'm gonna go for it

 

[hotb0d]

If you're going to bring guys home and do it like rabbits ...just try to keep it quiet. I had a similar situation with a roommate of mine last year. My other roommate and I didn't care at all that he brought a girl back to the apt except that they were moaning and bed was squeaking. My roommate and I were outside watching TV and eating ice cream, we stopped eating ice cream and decided to go to the gym that night and it was freezing outside.

 

[thisisinteresting]

It's really none of their business.

 

[G-Lexington]

I guess it'll depend on how friendly you get with them. As it was, I got quite friendly with all my roommates in college, so I would've told them. But if you're basically just sharing living space, then there's no real motivation for letting them know.

Lex

 

[Stitch627]

The guy I've been living with for a year, he's nice, I can even say we're friend, but we don't really hang out together. We more share the living space.

The second guy, he moved in 3 days ago. It's thus too soon to tell

 

[rareboy]

We used to have a roommate we called Thumper when I was in University. It was a never ending stream of skanks through the house and one of them was a real moaner and screamer..........

We had to burn all of his bedding at the end of term because he never washed his sheets.