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Did BJ mean nothing to my friend?

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Uhmmmm.... just forget about him. Really, he shouldn't have forced you to give him a BJ in the first place.

What a douche.
 
Neh, you should drop kicked him in the crotch, or you could confront him about him about it and say what a fucker he is since he uses you to get off, but aren't allowed you to use him to get off.
 
at the most,
he might be interested in just casual/benefits types of hookups with you,
but nothing lovey-dovey relationship wise
so dont expect anything like that
you'll just weird him out...not sure how good of friends you guys are tho

but yes whats really good with your status claiming to be "partnered" anyways?
 
Hi Yummers, sorry that happened to you--and as a first time.

I'd forget him. He's an A #1 Closet Case who has either got to grow up and get real about himself or be miserable his whole life. It's up to him, but fortunately, you don't have to deal with his baggage and coming out drama (if he ever decides to do so).

It's amazing what guys do when they're horny as hell, isn't it? Tender and sweet and giving....until I blow. Then, get the hell out, queer. Sheez. It's enough to turn you straight. :rolleyes:
 
Ok ... then maybe he is just a little uncomfortable talking about it face to face etc ... why not call him and talk about it ? Communication can do wonders .... If it was just a one time thing for him,respect his wishes ... But when you ask if ya'll might get together again for another round ... he just might say YES ... You won't know until ya'll TALK ...
 
To answer your question, yes, it sounds like it meant nothing. Just him trying something new at your expense and getting off the one time. For him to treat you freaky as he did, he's no friend. Forget it, don't let it bother you, and move on. That's all those types of guys are good for. Most of us have experienced something similar at some point, usually when younger. If what you are looking for is more, when a situation like this arises again (scuse the pun) don't let the other guy take control. And if he insists on it, push him off and leave.
 
the fact that he wouldn't even jack you off after you sucked him should tell you something. He wanted a BJ and that's about it.
I would chalk it up to experience and let him go.
 
The dude was obviously massively horny and, he saw an opening, too.

You have agreed to participate without much ado and without any thought of requesting reciprocation.

He got all he wanted and has thus, lost his interest. He has also got a hetero image and reputation to protect, so even if he gets very seriously horny next time, he is going to offer his car for sale to someone else. After all, he can't have people talking about the 2 of hanging out too much together and him turning 'queer' or something, can he?

Move on. Now. And never look back.

SC
 
Your story says that you just graduated - from high school? That would mean you are 18, born probably in 1989. Your profile says that you came out in 1987 - two years before you should have been born. Your writing does not sound that like of an 18 year old - if it is, you are very precocious. Actually, I wrote a similar story when I was 19, but it was a fantasy but also had to do with forced sex.

I recommend that you get the DVD, Boys Life: Three Stories of Love, Lust, and Liberation and watch the third movie, The Disco Years, written and directed by Robert Lee King. It has a very similar plot to your story and mine.
 
LarsVenice said:
Your story says that you just graduated - from high school? That would mean you are 18, born probably in 1989. Your profile says that you came out in 1987 - two years before you should have been born. Your writing does not sound that like of an 18 year old - if it is, you are very precocious. Actually, I wrote a similar story when I was 19, but it was a fantasy but also had to do with forced sex.

I recommend that you get the DVD, Boys Life: Three Stories of Love, Lust, and Liberation and watch the third movie, The Disco Years, written and directed by Robert Lee King. It has a very similar plot to your story and mine.
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Yes the timeline is a bit suspect, but anyhow a good rule a thumb when starting on your sexual journey is, do only what a person does in return to you, unless non reciprocated sex is major turn on for you. The more experiance you have the more you will know your boundaries.
 
Yummers, dont feel bad, you didnt lose any dignity over this incident. He is the one that sent mixed signals...
 
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