Differences between sleeping with men and women

[OrionNorthFL]

It takes more work to get a woman off. Most women expect you to take a dominant role.

And they're easier to fuck, with less preparation and no lube necessary (if you get the motor running in advance. A friend of mine calls her vagina a "pot of goo".... and that's basically what it is, lol. Feels good though.

It's different. Fun different. Doesn't smell unless they don't wash, but that's true for any man or woman.

 

[69Strat]

Women are more passive and I think are hotter once aroused. They also don't know anything about giving head. Men are more interesting because they understand a man's needs and don't nag you over every little thing, which women like to do. In short, women expect you to chase after them and play the male role.

 

[weasley]

no offense to the guys, but i think girls have a kind of natural sweet body odor or something. lol, that's why i like to snuggle in a girl's bed instead of my own

 

[hermanding]

what have i been missing
ding

 

[69Strat]

no offense to the guys, but i think girls have a kind of natural sweet body odor or something.

Probably because they use perfume and scented bath water, lmao.

 

[hot tamales]

My experiences are similar to what OrionNorthFL had mentioned: Most women expect you to take a dominant role.

OrionNorthFL also mentioned that women are easier to fuck once you've got their bodily fluids flowing, which I've found to be true. But getting men into bed I've found to be less difficult than getting women into bed. As a sweeping generalization from what I've found, guys are much more up front about attraction and sex where women tend to wear their 'bitch shields' far past the point of intrigue.

As luvaboi3 said: with girls I find that there is a lot more innuendo and hidden messages...guys will usually just tell you straight out what they want.

Also in my experiences, women are much gentler but they don't give better head. That championship easily belongs to the boys; no questions asked. FWIW, I find the smell of a vagina is distinctively different from a penis, although I love the smell of both.

To answer the original question: Are women harder to please sexually?, I'd say Yes.

Maybe it's because I have a better gauge for what guys like seeing as that I am one, I don't know. But I've found that I have a much better idea of what guys like than girls. Being more dominantly intense with girls seems to be a pretty good way to please them. Guys of course are turned on and ready to go much easier than girls are; girls need more of a 'moment', so to speak. Also, girls generally (In My Experiences) tend to take much better care of themselves hiegene-wise.

Of course, these are based on my experiences; anyone else's experiences could be completely different.

Personally, I would recommend hooking up with a chick if for no other reason than to see what it's like.

 

[69Strat]

But with girls I find that there is a lot more innuendo and hidden messages...guys will usually just tell you straight out what they want.

I have found the same thing with men being more upfront. I also think they are more emotional stable, since they don't have menstrual cycles to contend with every month, which can really put a damper on sex.

 

[darkstormy]

Someone mentioned how men are better at giving head than women. I would add that, in general, people of the same gender are better at giving head to each to each other, since they know what they want.
Also, women seem to choke on "it" more so than men do, especially if it's big. Also, a lot of women don't really get into it.

 

[weasley]

i've gotten head from both sexes, and i get "i'm tired" from both sexes equally.
=( so i never had a good head before

 

[bostonboy20]

most girls I know hate giving head...which i'm sorry...but if you want me to go downtown you best be going there too! The last girl I was with...i didn't wanna be sleeping with her...it's a long story...but i was really drunk and horny and just did it...but in the middle i'm like shit...i don't wanna do this she likes me enough as it is i don't want her to think i actually have feelings for her(i know asshole...but it's true) so in my state I think alright i'm just gonna make this really bad so she will never wanna have sex with me again. But it apparently didn't work cause she told a friend of mine it was really good...but back to the point...I was going down on her for awhile...and I finally laid back and i'm like ok time to reciprocate and she's just like ok...and she started giving me head but i really don't think her lips ever touched my dick...it was just like...have you ever done this before? cause this is horrible...i stopped her after like a minute...it was horrible...but yes guys give much better head then girls in my experience

 

[Center]

As men are hard, women are soft. Women require a lot more warming up than guys and come off their “sexual high” much more slowly. Also, they are ready to roll again immediate afterwards, while most guys aren’t interested in sex again (at least for a while). This is one of the more interesting aspects of heterosexual sex for me. I enjoy the challenge of satisfying her multiple times. I like it when she gives me that, “Are you man enough to take me again so soon?” I enjoy a good challenge.

Remember that a “man’s smell and taste” without the strong sexual desires is not particularly good either. I know I’ve never said to myself in the morning, “Gee I wish this milk tasted more like cum.” or “I wish my living room smelled more like cock.” Yes if the person’s hygiene is poor then it will be pretty rank, but that is true of either gender.

I agree that women are less skilled at giving head. First of all, their mouths are smaller, so they can’t accommodate it as easily, especially if you are larger than average. Secondly, they tend to be less aggressive sexually, so they don’t instinctually “ravage” a penis.

Sex with guys tends to be more aggressive and “nasty”. It certainly can be soft and romantic too. But women typically, prefer a guy to be firm, dominant, but still gentle. Obviously these are very broad generalities. Every woman is different and almost every woman wants it rough sometimes.

 

[69Strat]

i've gotten head from both sexes, and i get "i'm tired" from both sexes equally.
=( so i never had a good head before

Surprised to hear this, as most men are usually pretty good in that area. Oh well.

 

[TheTrish]

I've never been with a woman but i'm curious. I only want bisexual men to reply not gay men who have previously slept with women when in denial or whatever.

What are women like? They feel soft? Smooth? Nice what about the taste i've been told musky. Gay men who don't have a clue or are bitchy call it fishy?

I've been with men who smell of mouldy cheese with bad hygiene too. and you all know they're out there.

Are women harder to please sexually?

Hi, angel! Yes, girls are harder to please. To me, sex is not defined by your orgasm, as my boyfriend has learned much to his dismay and delight! hehe For sexual satisfaction, I need at least an hour of sweaty, grunting humping. Are you man enough? LOL

Girls are aggressive, more so than you’ll ever understand! LOL When I get horny, I go to a lesbian bar… to be picked up. hehe

Girls are soft, smooth and sweet, but, being a guy, you probably won’t notice! LOL

T

 

[Something Else]

the contrast of hard and soft; aggressive and passive; sexual and sensual; verbal and reticent would be some of the contrasts between men and women, in my experiences.

One thing that really turns me on about women, is their bedroom eyes. (Something about a woman and her expressions while being touched there just gets me ) Especially when you eat them out. Their moans and the way their body move is very sensual. And hearing them, "lose themselves" within that moment is also priceless, lol.

Generally, the women i've slept with, they're passive and looking to be told what to do, and where to be moved (regards to positions) and into pleasing you--as long as it's intercourse, lol.

when it comes to blowjobs...

well, for girls, that's not their first inclination. Incidentally, I've had my worst blowjob from a chick. However, I've also had my best blowjob from a girl as well
(*U*)

that girl is still the only one that has made me cum from a blowjob. So she has a special place in my heart.

Ironically, she was the most aggressive chick I've ever met (she wanted me to go "Rocky Road" which was a total shock to me at that time )

But I digress...

I prefer woman for intercourse more than guys cuz they're parts don't need preparation. You can literally just get it goin whenever, wherever. And as many times as you can go. In fact, I remember I used to sleep with my last gf (hard inside her) for like a 2-3 hour summer nap.

***ahh the memories***

The one contrast that is the most striking is that:

Most men don't have problems compartmentalizing sex from intimacy, as a result there are a lot of men who are ready to get undress "if the mood hits them"

Generally, the men I've dealt with have been more vocal, more physical and tend to have a lot more passion within the moment--hich is entirely a different energy level.

Kissing is kinda hit or miss with the guys--at least in my experience. I've only met two guys out of a handful of guys that were exceptional kissers. Whereas, all the women i've slept with were pretty good kissers. And the best is still a girl who, literally, taught me how to kiss sensually.

For me kissing skills are very IMPORTANT

hope this helps

 

[echuck]

I've been with both but only slept with women, they are gentle, loving and great to sleep with. On the other had I don't know of many guys that would rim a guy after they went to the bath room. Women like men need to prepare and be ready for the ultimate experience.

 

[snakeeater1]

I’ve done both men and women doggie style and could hardly tell any difference except for the aroma. I did notice however that men were more vocal Where as the feeling on my dick were very similar…

 

[BiBtm64]

Sleeping with? I've never slept with a man. Women are nice the sleep with - they're soft, cuddly, loving, and they snuggle into you, especially if the sex has been really good and she's had orgasms. There's something special about a woman after she cums, she wants to wrap herself around you and become part of you, like she feels a beautiful trust and connection. I enjoy giving her that.

If you mean having sex with... women tend to want you to take the lead, or she might suggest things but she'll tend to go with the flow. It took some time with my woman for her to develop the confidence to tell me what to do, like "on your back" when she wanted to ride me. It's a beautiful thing when she does. Different positions feel different for women and it's hard to try to figure out or guess what works for her. I'm sure there are women who demand what they want, I've heard more so in casual sex situations where it's all just about the moment. I've never had casual sex with a woman; I've only had women in relationships, so I can't say I've researched a large sample.

And that's the next comparison I'd make - women's arousal and pleasure are complicated, and it takes some time to get her aroused and fully enjoying. The process of whole-of-body attention, erogenous areas that are not in or near her genitals, took some learning and paid some dividends for me. Learning to enjoy eating pussy is a huge step toward enjoying and being enjoyed by a woman.

With men, it all seems simpler. Men are very dick focused. That's where their pleasure is, and where it starts and ends. I'm sure there are exceptions but men generally don't need a lot of foreplay. For men, it's less about intimacy and more about pleasure and getting off, although I have had gay fuck buddies who were very sensual and intimate, which was fun. Men have a different kind of energy which is more physical. As a bottom, I'm on the receiving end of that physical energy, lust and power, whereas with a woman I'm taking the lead and doing the fucking, so I see the comparisons through a specific lens, I guess.

And last but not least, there is the vagina: that magical love tunnel that hugs your dick like a beautiful warm most glove. Comparing with woman's ass, which is tight, muscular, grippy, and more primal in a way but less intimate - that's why I've never had any desire to fuck a man's ass. I've had woman-ass and I'd much rather fuck a pussy. She gave up her ass for me willingly many times, I was curious and so was she. Ultimately we both seemed to come to the conclusion that pussy was better. Neither of us said it, we just stopped having anal and enjoyed pussy sex.

Women and men each have their really great attributes and I'm glad to have experienced both in my lifetime.