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Dilemma - Should I meet him?

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Lately I have been searching hard for months for a guy I can meet off the internet. Finding someone that is attractive, not crazy and disease free is very hard.

I finally met this older guy online and he is 51 years old, 30 years older than me. He is very attractive and is into all the things I want to try sexually, which are rimming, sucking, kissing, armpits etc. My only reservation is that I know he has been around the block few times. His profile insisted on safe sex only and he listed barebackers as a turn off, but he was telling me about his experiences at a foreign bath house. Also, he is in an open relation with kids and seems to want no strings attached, and I am looking for an ongoing thing.

Should I meet this guy? My biggest concern is getting herpes or some other disease. If I had another dude lined up then it wouldn't be an issue but I have been so ridiculously horny lately that I don't know how much more I can take. I've also been getting really desperate lately because I am not having any luck finding a good friend with benefits. What should I do?
 
Playing with someone older is not an issue. He sounds like a good guy, in that he insists you play safely and is upfront with you about his situation and expectations. ALWAYS play safe, and you should be fine. I had a lover that was nearly that much older when I was in my twenties and he was one of the best lovers I ever had! Had a LOT of fun with him. Cheers!
 
Not sure what you mean by ongoing thing.. You mean like a commited relationship?
Don't set your standards too low.. There are lots of wonderful guys out there that can give you real affection and love.

I would use caution though.. Just because he says he's STD free, it's always better to be safe.

Have you tried looking guys besides the internet?
 
I don't want a relationship, just somebody I can call a friend and see often. This guy doesn't seem like it though. He wanted to get a motel and that's not me.

The internet is the only place I have looked for guys because I'm not ready to go to a gay bar or bath house, but I have been having a real hard time finding a decent guy my own age whether it is on manhunt, adam4adam, squirt or craigslist.
 
At the same time maybe i'm making a big deal out of it. Maybe I should go do it and move on. I just don't want to catch anything.
 
I wouldn't. Wait until you find someone (either online or in person, pref the latter) that wants to meet you because you think you both get along and want to hang out...this guy seems like he only wants to get together because you're 30 years younger.
There are plenty of cool people out there. No rush, and don't settle.
 
YOu can find decent guys your age. Dont settle for older who wants to use young ass unless you really like odler guys.
 
marquismike said:
I wouldn't. Wait until you find someone (either online or in person, pref the latter) that wants to meet you because you think you both get along and want to hang out...this guy seems like he only wants to get together because you're 30 years younger.
There are plenty of cool people out there. No rush, and don't settle.
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youngnihilist said:
YOu can find decent guys your age. Dont settle for older who wants to use young ass unless you really like odler guys.
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Thanks you guys for the solid advice and for having my best interest in mind. I want to meet him but am afraid of catching something. I think i'm gonna wait.
 
marquismike said:
I wouldn't. Wait until you find someone (either online or in person, pref the latter) that wants to meet you because you think you both get along and want to hang out...this guy seems like he only wants to get together because you're 30 years younger.
There are plenty of cool people out there. No rush, and don't settle.
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youngnihilist said:
YOu can find decent guys your age. Dont settle for older who wants to use young ass unless you really like odler guys.
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Thanks you guys for the solid advice and for having my best interest in mind. I want to meet him but am afraid of catching something. I think i'm gonna wait until I find someone my own age but the temptation is still there.
 
There are 50+ guys who can love a younger guy forever. I'm straight-acting. But gay. And I can love a younger guy as long as he needs me too. It's free love. And I let it go when the time comes and he wants to move on.
 
killdawabbit said:
There are 50+ guys who can love a younger guy forever. I'm straight-acting. But gay. And I can love a younger guy as long as he needs me too. It's free love. And I let it go when the time comes and he wants to move on.
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Easier said than done. LOL.
 
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