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I hooked up with this guy from online. He had been so excited to come over and said I was one of the best guys he had been with. In short, my dick developed technical difficulties and he was convinced it was because I wasn't into him. So he pretty much bolted out the door. He wouldn't stop asking if it was him like he didn't believe me. This is potentially because he said I was hot many times, but I never complemented him at all even when he went fishing for complements. My bad.

I sent him a message on the site we met on explaining what happened (that I popped out and went soft after I couldn't get it back in) and he didn't respond to that. Instead, he blocked me.

Should I leave it at that or contact him through other means and set it straight that I really am into him (something I never told him) and that it was just a fluke mishap?

If you were him, would you want to hear from me or just move on?
 
Just let it go nd move on. Try to be more relaxed next and maybe go for guy's more your taste.

Cuz it was either you were not into him or it was nerves.

Don't fret over it just find someone else and forget about it. He's blocked you anyway so no sence in trying again with him..
 
Leave it and move along. Don't pay any more mind to him or what happened.
 
He sounds pretty insecure. As annoying as it is when something like that happens, the fact that he blocked you means he is at least slightly unstable. Unless you have some feelings for him, which doesn't seem to be the case, let it go and move on.
 
You were as nice as possible about the situation.

This guy wasn't just looking to get fucked. He was looking for validation. That's something he needs to take up with his therapist- it's not your responsibility to prop up his self-image during a NSA hookup.
 
Yes,i`m sure he`s waiting for you to contact him again. But its up to u .. do you want to give it another shot ?!
 
It sounds as if he was looking for a lay and you were looking for a date. When it came time for you to be used as a sex object you balked. Keep looking for a guy who wants more than your dick. It's said that sex is more mental than physical. As he became more interested in your bod, your mind became less interested in him. It's his loss.
 
I generally think being blocked means you should back off. I rarely block people, but if I do I will be very turned off if they stalk me and try to add me with another email or something. Just my opinion though.
 
- Your cock may have problems.

- But regardless, he is not worth it, forget about him, move on.

end of discussion
 
Just leave it.

He isn't worth the effort.
 
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