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Disjunctive bisexuality

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Researchers on bisexuality have often noted that those who identify as bi often have that same heart/body disconnect that I experienced. In the 1860s, the pioneering sexual rights crusader Karl Heinrich Ulrichs wrote of “conjunctive” and “disjunctive” bisexuals. The former could be sexually and romantically drawn to both genders, while the latter could fall in love with just one sex while still lusting for both. Ulrichs claimed that “disjunctives” came in both varieties (some bisexuals could fall in love with their own sex but not the other; some could fall in love with the opposite sex but not their own. But in order to “qualify” as bisexual, disjunctives needed to have physical desire for both men and women.)
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http://www.thefrisky.com/2011-05-11/guy-talk-mythbusting-bisexual-men/
 
My new word for the day : disjunctive........which happens to be a totally accurate description....... ;)
 
Thanks for the link. It makes a lot of sense. I would put myself in the disjunctive category. So far I haven't acted on my physical desire for men, my emotions getting in the way. Probably depriving myself of some mind blowing sex.
 
^I was like that.

I realised last year just how mind-blowing sex with guys could actually be...

-d-
 
It's true. I have to say I know people who fit both groups... I also have to admit that I used to feel some pretty major jealousy and resentment toward straight male disjunctives. (Why not me?!) :grrr:

We're all in the same boat, and the grass is always greener, and all that jazz. I just wish there was a concrete, definitive answer like 2 + 2 = 4. I wouldn't care so much then. Maybe this is it. But, geez, man. Is it so much to ask to be given everything you want, the way you want it? So much for all that "reality is an illusion and you have total dominion over it" crap. :cool:
 
Another disjunctive bisexual here! I love fooling around with a guy and having sex and such but I have no inclination for a relationship with one. And yes, I have been told I am in denial before, too!
 
That's why male sports are such succes. Physical contacts in sports and for the rest flirting with chicks only to impress the other males. Did you see it, boys? I did put my cock up that girl pussy.

Most men function on disjunctive bisexual mode.
 
bulge said:
That's why male sports are such succes. Physical contacts in sports and for the rest flirting with chicks only to impress the other males. Did you see it, boys? I did put my cock up that girl pussy.

Most men function on disjunctive bisexual mode.
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Totally agree. I am convinced that the majority of males are at least *physically* bisexual to some degree.
 
LikesDudes2 said:
Totally agree. I am convinced that the majority of males are at least *physically* bisexual to some degree.
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Actually not just males, females as well. Studies have shown nearly every female will find female on female sex a turn on, as well as find other females somewhat attractive. I think there would be under 1% of humans that are totally completely straight.
 
If I wasn't an atheist, I'd start a new Mormon cult that would permit me to have multiple male and female spouses. Wouldn't I get my own planet when I died, or something? I guess I'm conjunctive.
 
Sebst88 said:
...usually there's at least one guy "explaining" to me how I'm denial and should embrace my true feelings or something.
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DonSimon said:
... And yes, I have been told I am in denial before, too!
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And I'd probably guess that you were told it by gay men that don't understand what bisexuality is really about! I really wish more gay men would take time out and educate themselves instead of pursuing this 'you're in denial' mentality.

In the same way that Stonewall has the 'Some people are gay - Get over it!' tagline, it would be nice if people also understood that 'Some people are bisexual - Get over it!' :)
 
seven2go said:
My new word for the day : disjunctive........which happens to be a totally accurate description....... ;)
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While the analysis is interesting, I don't like the word 'disjunctive'!
It sounds like some kind of disorder or affliction! Just what bi's dont need.
 
I'm the exact same so not into havin a relationship with a guy jst wanna suck them off. Also guys with small dicks do nothing for me they need to be big don't care about age, weight looks ect. Anal sex with a guy is jst not my thing just blowjobs and only giving. A slut for sucking big cock but straight every other way! Very weird lol
 
I know more disjunctive bisexuals than gay guys.
 
"Conjunctive" here.:wave:

Last weekend, a bi male friend of mine was describing his lust for certain male-on-male activities and his desire to settle down with a woman. He was a bit shy at first, but I convinced him I wanted details on the former (and a copy in writing for my next book). I was somewhat surprised when he said he wouldn't rule out a serious relationship with a man. I shouldn't have been surprised - it makes sense in this context. The men he plays around with are mostly straight (or "disjunctive" bi with only a physical interest in men) or gay and already partnered, so he doesn't meet many eligible men.
 
bulge said:
I know more disjunctive bisexuals than gay guys.
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I think it is quite likely that there are more disjunctive bisexuals than 'out' gay guys. However most of the bisexual guys are deep in the closet so never get to be able to satisfy their desires!
 
Yaaay! The word I've been looking for!! Previously the closest I got was "defective bisexual."!oops!

Disjunctiveness, fine on its own, is what opens a whole can of worms when mixed with people who can actually fall in love. That is the source of bitter accusations and public warnings to avoid the bi guys, or not date them, and so on. I think if people are up front about what they want (conjunctive/disjunctive) it would get us past a lot of that, gay, bi & straight.

And that probably applies to heteros and homos just as much as the bi guys. There are plenty of disjunctive homos who really only want to fuck someone and move on. Same with heteros.
 
Interesting, unlike most guys him I'm kinda the opposite. I've had girlfriends before but everyone I had was nothing more than a sexual thing, we didn't really connect on a truly deep level. I'd much rather be in the company of a man and emotionally intimate with a man than a woman. But at the same time, i still like having sex with girls. there just so soft and smell sweet lol and i love boobs. I've also been told by the few gay guys I know that I'm just really gay and need to stop trying to hold onto women -___-' I'm mostly like stfu don't tell me how "I" feel.
 
Until recently, I have only had casual sex with men and usually dated and slept with women. I've found that I don't mind actually dating a guy that I know really well - there have only been two that I can see myself emotionally attached and wanting to be in a relationship with...other than it's usually just sex and that's it.
 
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