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do i like him

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i have always considered myself to be bi have head relationships wit girls but only sex wit guys never anything serious. So i have been meetin up wit this guy since the summer im 19 hes 27 i dont think we have much in common but we have good sex but afterwards i always go quiet and dont really want to be there coz i feel like im leadin him on. But we still meet up about once a week im just confused about him coz i no e likes me. Am i leadin him on coz everytime i want sex we meet up but he always said it was no strings but e wants me to be with him everyday
 
What you need to figure out is what you want.

Do you want something besides a once-a-week fuckbuddy?

Do you want something more with your current fuckbuddy?

Are you happy with the way things are?

What ever your decision is, be honest with him about it. It's always the right thing to do with anyone that you're involved with- even a fuckbuddy.
 
hah, it's not no strings anymore. as you astutely noted, he is way into you, more than you are into him.
 
Im gonna break from the pack and he disagree. From the little info you gave he doesnt seem that into you. He might be really into the sex. But it doesnt seem like he thinks your gonna be his life partner.

Maybe youre projecting. It's always suspicious when guys say i only do serious relationships with girls but your having sex with this guy every week. It seems more like you are making an effort not have feelings. that way you dont have to identify as gay or even bi.
 
I'm not really sure what the question is.

Do you like him? Well, you like having sex with him, which isn't the same thing, I guess. Do you like him more than that? If you're asking a cartoon gargoyle on a messageboard to answer that question based on six lines of text, I'd say that you don't. What should you do? Enjoy the sex, but be ready to end it if you think he's getting too clingy.

Lex
 
Forgive me.

I read the post this morning but didn't really know how to frame a response.

So. u lyk im. E lyks u. teh sex is gr8t. U R no ledin im on. E's old enuf 2 figur it out 4 imslf.
 
thanks for the replies. I no i dont want a serious relationship with him i dont no what he wants either but recently he gettin a bit more full on textin and wantin to get hotels and stuff and i no it sounds selfish but the only thing thats good about it is the sex im just being honest here hope i dont sound like a prat
 
I'm not sure what a prat is...

But...

I SUSPECT that you should trust your intuition --- and if you are NOT looking for a relationship -- than break it off completely...

It'll be better for BOTH of you...

Best of luck dude...

:):):)
 
Well, I think it's healthy and normal for guys to have that "weird half-hour" after sex, where they just want to shut the fuck up and avoid each other. It's a guy thing that women'll never understand.

The "I don't want to lead him on. . ." comment probably means that you don't like him enough to be in a relationship, though.
 
yeah true i dont like him enough to be in a relationship but it always supposed to be just a bit of fun
 
I still dont see where you get this idea that he likes you. He just sounds really horny. He doesnt want to go to the movies, walk on the beach, or go to dinner. According to your own info, he is texting you for more sex. It seems like you are making a bigger deal out of it for some reason.
 
coz he has said stuff like he never felt this way about anyone before and said he would be serious with me if i would be with him its not a problem anyway i just wanted some advice
 
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