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Do you believe in destiny or free will?

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When you run into relationship problems, what do you believe in?

Do you believe that things will work out if it was destiny, or do you believe in free will, that you must actively take action for something to work out?


When your boyfriend tells you what we have will be determined by destiny, how do you respond to that? Do you think playing the destiny card is simply an excuse for being irresponsible?
 
It's one of the great justifications for not taking responsibility for your own actions.
 
>>>Do you think playing the destiny card is simply an excuse for being irresponsible?

It's an excuse for anything that happens. If he runs across another guy, and ends up fucking him and his roommate senseless, hey - destiny. He couldn't help it.

I don't know if it's better or worse than people who blame doing things on love, though. After sleeping on the sly with one, two, twenty other guys, they'll say "Hey, it's not MY fault. It's not like I can control my emotions". Which apparently is why we always kill that guy who cut us off on the way to work.

Lex
 
LOL ...Honey I swear, we just fell over and my cock went up his ass...I couldn't help it...it just happened...
 
That 1 in a billion put in a hell of a lot of work to get there. Sure there's chance, but life and love are what we make of them.
 
Time to put my minor in philosophy to work...

Personally, I'm a determinist. I think that we generally have a mapped out course in front of us as human beings, and that we have the illusion of free will. By which I mean that humans are given the option to take different courses throughout their lives, but the end result will ultimately be the same.

Effectively, we can make choices that affect our current situation but our overall path of life will continue towards our predetermined destiny.

As for using destiny as a response to answer a question of what your relationship is...To an extent, it's a valid answer.

However, as I mentioned, we have the illusion of free choice that allows us to affect the present but not the future, per se. As such, if you catch your boyfriend cheating on you, that was a present choice. However, if he cheats on you, it would be safe to assume that your relationship was doomed to failure anyways.

As such, a present choice which you discovered led to the same future in which the relationship ended.

But that's my point of view.
 
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