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Do you go through phases?

Nurlan2 said:
I've noticed this about myself. What do you guys think triggers the phase changes? For me I think it has to do with who I'm hanging out with a lot, and also my level of social engagement/isolation. If I'm out with the boys a lot, I tend not to be very attracted to other guys, but if I'm going through a period of relative social isolation, I start noticing guys more. Also, does being in a relationship cause your brain to tune back the attraction to the sex opposite to that of your partner? That's the case for me.
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Definitely the case for me, too....
 
boyboycurious said:
I do experience the same.

I know this doesn't make me sound nice, but i switch phases as soon as i'm done being with the guy or jerking off to gay porn. I switch phase almost immediately, but in a couple of days time when i'm horny again, I'm into guys again.

Btw I took that test from the link: Bi with hetero tendencies.
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Another post that describes my situation at times.

Honestly, i've never really been into a bi or a gay guy. I know that's somewhat of a dilemma...but i've come to realize that I only fall for straight guys. Sure, im attracted to gay and bi guys....but my desire to have sex and be in a relationship with straight guys is OVERWHELMINGLY stronger.
 
I go through phases as well, but not as often or as extreme as it seems most guys do. I'm generally romantically attracted to women (and a little towards men) and sexually/physically attracted to both men and women, but men more. That's just on the whole. For individuals it really depends on the person, I can be on a phase that's more towards women but if the right guy walks up to me I could go right for him without a second thought.

So for me, the phases are less intense, and it more depends on the individual person and what they mean to me.
 
Looks like you're not alone hotrox. Me too! To this day I haven't worked out what it is that turns the switch. All I know is that some mornings I wake up with a big stiffy and a smile knowing that I wasn't dreaming about the wife. And that tends to set the tone for the rest of the day!
 
I wonder why it comes and goes in phases like that sometimes?? I have that issue as well. While I can always appreciate members from either sex, I tend to think or fantasize more about one or the other for days at a time. It's like it rotates weeks almost.... strange...
 
ivor-longhorn said:
Looks like you're not alone hotrox. Me too! To this day I haven't worked out what it is that turns the switch. All I know is that some mornings I wake up with a big stiffy and a smile knowing that I wasn't dreaming about the wife. And that tends to set the tone for the rest of the day!
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Ditto...................(!)
 
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