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Do you have difficulty getting and staying hard (with everyone)?

Treating the cause is better than just treating the symptom.

If he's having this problem because of anxiety... then the focus should be on treating the anxiety.
 
Is anxiety the cause? Who knows? If he has anxiety about performing, then helping him perform will help cure the anxiety. If some one has anxiety about riding a bike, we would know that showing him that he can ride the bike is the way to overcome the anxiety. We would not insist on curing the anxiety before putting him on the bike.
 
I can't maintain an erection with a condom on and I have had trouble keeping an erection since I first had sex at age 19. The pressure of the condom and especially the unpleasant texture of it (as well as water-based lube which I find unpleasant in both odor and texture) has made it basically impossible for me to top safely since I was 20.

When masturbating I go flaccid quickly and get hard quickly. I have never experienced dysfunction without a condom when with someone, with the exception of my first time (probably because I was completely exhausted). However, since I haven't barebacked in fifteen years I wonder if I would still be able to maintain an erection even bare.

I haven't had sex in about eight years. I prefer to top. Plus, since I can't top safely and I don't go to bars or have luck meeting guys I'm attracted to online, I gave up a while ago. The young guys I'm attracted to always want other young guys. I'm in my mid thirties now and I don't lift. I'm just slim and I don't have a huge penis.

Blood flow can be a real problem. It's not always mental.
 
I suggest you try the unlubricated condoms. Trojan has them in a red package. Also try the Jumbo size. Even if you are not jumbo sized, there will less pressure.
There are plenty of guys, including younger guys, who would like to meet a slim guy in his mid thirties, you just have to keep trying, and try to be less particular yourself. When you advertise on the internet, be specific about yourself and you will find people looking for your type.
 
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