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Do you regret not being able to have kids ?

Can't have children? I'm not sterile, dammit, all i need is a loose woman and a turkey baster, and I'm all babied up!
 
I don't regret it, because there are children that need adoptive parents. I've been considering this for a few years and recently started contacting some state-wide agencies about the possibility. I have expressed that it would be about this time next year before I could start the process, and several agencies are sending me information and paperwork to begin...

mikey
 
I want to have kids in the future, but I still have time (I'm only 19, but for some reason my JUB profile says 25...? There is some info in my profile that isn't mine.) I still have to fall in love first :-)
 
you can have kids:
1) go knock some girl up then support her and your kid for 20 years
2) adopt a little girl from China

All joking aside you can do it if you really want to and you are ready to jump over some hurdles.


Kids are the best!!!
 
hum....i would like to have kids someday but that is part of my desire to have a family. i don't want ot marry a woman, but i think there are many options avialable to us these days and hopfully more to come down the line.

paw's table of why not to breed was interesting and certainly there are some points in that table that i think are very true. however, a sense of family, of connectedness (word?), sense of being together, of being part of something, and what not is part of many of us. I will be spending my first holidays this year alone. I think i'll get a good taste of what it's like not to have a family. I've grown up with a huge family. Aunts, unlces, cusines, i have 2 sisters, 1 brother, 3 in-laws, and 9 nieces and nephews. All those folks live within a 40 mile circle of one another. "home" doesn't feel so much like home without people to share it with.
 
That is good question-- My mother told me once that her deepest regret about me being gay was that I would never be a father--and she thought I would be a very good one. She is right in that I love kids and seem to have a natural affinity with them. But I do not have a biological urge to procreate-- if I were to have children, they would be adopted. I feel that my homosexuality is nature's way of checking rampant procreation, and there are so many children in the world who are neglected and need good homes. I have not adopted because my partner would have to agree with that and neither of us feel financially secure enough to guarantee that we could support a child until they are an adult. We are both loving uncles to neices and nephews on both sides of our family, and we are content with that...|
 
vamagnifique said:
yes! i have to accept that i am a dead branch on an otherwise healthy and over productive tree.
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Gawd, vamagnifique, that's a really depressing way to put it....even by my
standards.


I don't even know you, dude, but I can assure you that you are far from a
'dead branch'.

Josh
 
Oldest and only son of the oldest son who is the only son to have children in a waning Chinese bloodline. In short, yes.

But I also know that unless I get my nuts cut off, I can still have kids by one way or another. I also enjoy the fact that I can adopt if I want to assuming that people don't make it impossibly hard for me. I support adoption and being gay personally makes me a prime applicant.
 
Yes, that is one of the reasons I would "cure" myself I could. The biggest reason, actually.

Technically, having kids is possible. I would never do that with another man, though. Poor kid...
 
I think that some day I will want kids..

..But I don't think one would go very well with my dorm room at the moment.
 
Given that there are alternatives for gay males to get kids, I think the added difficulty is totally worth the benefit of being able to have casual sex without the worry of unplanned pregnancy.
 
I love children, but I will leave that up to my sister to have them. My parents are happy with the situation. Besides, I would look no good with a hump on my back!
 
After several decades of Feminist thinking, it would not be unthinkable to find a woman totally open to a "partnership" that didn't require the commitments of a Marriage. Maybe someone should open a website: Feminist/Gay Alliance or something. Be prepared for some flak from some of 'em, though; we aren't exactly on some of their Xmas Card list with the way some GGuys talk about some perfectly interesting and intelligent women.
 
I love children. My brother has two young adorable children and i get to look after them and take them places and they're so sweet to me, I imagine they can be little terrors to my brother when they want to be. They're a lot of fun. I think i probably would make a good father and I would consider adoption when i'm older. In the meantime my brothers wife if knocked up again so i'll have another niece or nephew :D
 
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