Do you trust Adam4Adam?

[justwant2know]

I justwant2know.... Basically the title says it all do you trust adam4adam dot... com if youre not out and even if you are can you trust these online sites for meeting people.

 

[Corny]

Trust the site, or the people ON the site?

 

[justwant2know]

Of course the PEOPLE not the SITE itself.... should been specific with that

 

[Kevin77]

I've only met one person from that site, and it was the most awkward thing ever.

 

[palemale]

I've met lots of nice, sane, sexy guys on A4A. I have been able, for the most part, to avoid the crazies.

 

[needalund82]

so far i have good experience with adam4adam.

 

[FirePhoenix]

ok so far I have met a nice guy that was kinda mental.. a crazy guy who could not get off his phone or stop talking about drugs and wanted to just have sex.. numerous weirdos that are too many to name among many others...

Adam4Adam is a fun and interesting place.... My kinda people!

as for trusting the people in person... oh hell no... my friends know where I am going and that I am going to call/txt them somewhere down the line.

 

[Corny]

Of course the PEOPLE not the SITE itself.... should been specific with that

Then the answer is yes and no. Not all people on a4a are trustworthy. Quite a few of them are not. Same here. Same everywhere. Trust yourself, trust your instincts.

 

[LoveInEcstacy]

Many of the people on any dating site are there because they dont have time or opportunities to meet guys in other ways. Most of them are people just like you really. You should always use caution when meeting people online just incase

 

[mbamike]

I have hooked up with several great guys on A4A. You just need to do your due diligence.

 

[BiAggieGuy]

Always had good experiences on A4A. Meet both guys in my town and some who were visiting. Also use it when I travel to Dallas to hookup with a couple of fuck buddies up there or find a new one.

I usually talk to potential hookups for a while before agreeing, gives me a good chance to what they're like. Usually we'll meet somewhere in public the first time. If I feel anything is wrong, that is as far as it goes. If guys don't have pictures on the site, then I am not interested.

Always use caution online, and if you feel warning bells go off, get out of the situation.

 

[coloradobottom]

Living in a small town, being older it's hard to find men in my age group. Theres very few on A4A in my age group.
I made it clear on there, and on the phone I'm bottom only. The guy comes over and insists I fuck him. I wouldn't of coarse. Then he wanted me to fist him. I'm not into that. He left shortly. Next one was faster then a quickie. He was here less then 3 minutes. Two strokes in my mouth, and 2 more as he fucked me. He was done. The next guy gave me crabs. I haven't found anyone since these 3.

 

[KURT10677]

I hooked up with a few cute dudes on a4a , but you got to be careful because sometime the pictures people show you are old. I met this one guy who was cute on his pic but when I met him in person he was short and about 300 pounds and he got dismissed, not to be mean but you shouldnt lie

 

[palemale]

I hooked up with a few cute dudes on a4a , but you got to be careful because sometime the pictures people show you are old. I met this one guy who was cute on his pic but when I met him in person he was short and about 300 pounds and he got dismissed, not to be mean but you shouldnt lie

I've shown up a couple of times to guys who did not look like their pics, much heavier in person. I left. On the other hand, I once hooked up with a guy whose pic was not real clear, and I thought, he's not bad. I gave it a shot. The man was impossibly good looking. Muscular, handsome face, young latino, sort of darker Caucasian looks, and a huge cock.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I've met some nice guys, some not-so-nice guys, and some stalker-ish guys. They're all on Adam. And thanks to the site, I know they're all within driving distance of me :|

Some of the guys are trustworthy when it comes to meeting someone at a coffee shop or something similar. But it's best to be skeptical when meeting someone online...so you don't set yourself up for disappointment.

 

[Aymotin]

Why would you want to trust somebody you don´t know?

 

[Lokithetrue]

Too skerrd, not gonna trust it

 

[biguy732]

As with any site - I will usually talk with the guy online for a while first to see if there are any oddities - then arrange a meeting in a VERY public place. I never trust anybody I meet online the first time.

 

[Scottyboi]

I've met multiple people over A4A. Most of them were 1 night stands/dates that didn't go anywhere after the sex.

Though I did meet 1) a Friend over A4A who has introduced me to 4 or 5 other friends in my city (I'm new and didn't know anyone). We never have fooled around and he's a great guy. I'm really lucky to have found a good friend in him.

2) I met a fuck buddy who was *seriously* the best sex I've had my whole life. I saw him for about a month but things sorta died off.

3) I met the guy I'm currently dating off A4A; yes people actually do use the site to date and not just to fuck.


I have had some sex that wasn't great off A4A but never anyone who was creepy or super awkward. I think the main thing is that you need to 1) use the filter function 2) be picky 3) speak to the guy online multiple times before you meet in person. Triple check they are listed as Neg. and that they have "safe sex only" and ask them again in person before you do the deed.

They could be lying to you, but anyone could be so wear a rubber (or have them wear one) and be active in protecting yourself. Let people know if your on a date, so if something happens someone knows where you were at.

edit- its funny, I only slept with a guy for the first time last March haha. I think I'm getting experienced at this

 

[Shepherd 2]

Corny is wise, and I would trust what he says about this whole business.
Shep+